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    Jul 25, 2009, 11:46 AM
    Should he marry !
    A guy his family wants him to marry his cousin they are pathan while he likes me and I'm a punjabi bt nw his family is forcing him to marry but he don't want to because we like each other but yet he didn't talk to his family about me but his family have a doubt that he likes a girl I want to ask that what should he do now plzz plzz I will be very thank ful do guide me! Thanks
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    Jul 25, 2009, 12:40 PM

    How old are you and is that your countries custom to have arranged marriages?
    If it is then I don't see anything you or he can do about it.
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    Jul 25, 2009, 08:31 PM
    That is sad that he is being forced to marry his cousin. It sounds like he has no choice in the matter.

    I don't know how much influence he can have over his parents decisions, but now would be the time to speak up, before the wedding takes place.

    Good luck to you.
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    Jul 27, 2009, 06:38 AM

    I'm sorry to hear that he's being forced into a marriage. If he doesn't love his cousin in that way, he's not going got have a happy marriage. Hopefully he will realize that.

    It's up to him what he wants to do. If he wants to be with you he will try to find a way and work it out with you.

    The only thing you can really do is remind him of how you feel about him, so that he can make a decision with all the relevant information.
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