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Nulich · Jul 23, 2009, 02:09 PM

All right so I was going to ask this girl out on the last day of the county fair but before I did I asked her friend if she likes me back. Then when I did she said that she had I boyfriend and I was so depressed. Then I told the girl that I was going to ask her out then she's like "yeah i do have a boyfriend sorry :(" but she asked if we can still be friends and I said yeah but then she told me that she just wants to be friends because she doesn't want to mess things up then I said okay but I wanted to say it wouldn't mess anything up. People are telling me to just get over her but I don't want to get over her... its so hard!:(

redhed35 · Jul 23, 2009, 02:16 PM

At least she was honest and didn't mess you around.
That's the type of girl you should go for,however,she does have a boyfriend and does not want a third party.
Your friends are right.. move on.
Plenty of fish in the sea..
One other thing though,don't try and persuade someone to cheat.

Nulich · Jul 23, 2009, 02:18 PM

Thanks :P

Nulich · Jul 23, 2009, 02:19 PM

Yeah I guess she was honest

redhed35 · Jul 23, 2009, 02:23 PM

At least you know where you stand,she did not say maybe,she said no.
She did not lead you on.

iloveeyouu · Jul 23, 2009, 02:33 PM

Well, could you get over her temporarily? Like wait and see if they break up , and if they do, be there for her. Don't jump into anything unless she is ready for another relationship though.

And besides, you can't go around being single forever, this isn't a rehearsal at life, it's the real deal, go out there and snag a different girl, there are MILLIONS/BILLIONS of girls out there, and one of them is yours.

,Violet

shelbybelle13 · Jul 24, 2009, 11:45 AM

just wait until she brakes up with her boyfriend.. or ask some random girl out and make her see your what she wants it's simple

kctiger · Jul 24, 2009, 12:13 PM

Why would you wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? Are you a vulture? Go out and find another girl... My God! You act like you fell in love with her or something. Rejection is going to happen MANY times in your life, so get used to it and find someone else. You would be nothing more than a rebound if you waited for her to break up... too many good times to be had to be waiting on someone else.

The above advice by Shelby is awful by the way, do nothing that he/she advises you to do unless you want to come across as an immature idiot.

liz28 · Jul 24, 2009, 12:20 PM

When the girl said "she didn't wanna mess anything up", she didn't mean with you. She meant she didn't want to mess things up with her boyfriend.

Sometimes you migh like someone that is already taken but you shouldn't get depressed over it. You move on.

Her friend already had told you before hand she had a boyfriend and you shouldn't expect her to leave her boyfriend for you.

Time for you to get out and start exploring.

I wish · Jul 24, 2009, 02:02 PM

She has a boyfriend so she's off limits.

I know she said she wants to be friends, but if you're still hooked on her, you got to ignore her until your feelings are gone.

After your feelings are gone, then you can attempt a friendship. Until then, find someone else.