Why did my ex dump me?

shanny_2006 · Oct 25, 2006, 05:53 PM

Everyhting was going well for me and my boyfriend. We have been together for about 7months and I thought everything was good, until one day he told me that it is over. I don't what happened? Why did he dump me?

Ace High · Oct 25, 2006, 06:05 PM

Shanny,
I guess everything was not good. Dating has its ups and downs. Good to know after only 7 months instead of investing more of your time into the failed relationship. Ace

s_cianci · Oct 25, 2006, 07:02 PM

You'll have to ask him that, if it's even worth worrying about in the first place. If he can't talk about his own feelings, then, frankly, he's not much of a catch and actually did you a favor by dumping you.

Skell · Oct 25, 2006, 07:28 PM

Does it really matter. Knowing that won't solve much. It won't bring him back and it won't help you heal.

So forget about answers that may just not be there and look after yourself. Worry about you. Not him.

You will get better in time. But only if you look after yourself and don't worry about all things out of your control such as this!

BUT for us to offer some possible reasons you need to give us a little more info. As long as you only want to know these possible reasojns so you can imrpove yourself and evaluate how do do things better in your next relationship!

Krs · Oct 26, 2006, 04:18 AM

He is the best person to answer your unanswered questions.

Wildcat21 · Oct 26, 2006, 10:13 AM

Wondering if you pushed him away... did you become TOO dependent on him - calling too much?? Needing to be with him too much?

Did you change?

talaniman · Oct 26, 2006, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by shanny_2006

Everyhting was going well for me and my boyfriend. We have been together for about 7months and I thought everything was good, until one day he told me that it is over. I don't what happened? Why did he dump me?

I would have thought you would have asked him when this happened. Why didn't you?

Wildcat21 · Oct 26, 2006, 11:44 AM

Ask for closuer from him. Ask.

The Nobleman · Dec 24, 2007, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by shanny_2006

Everyhting was going well for me and my boyfriend. We have been together for about 7months and I thought everything was good, until one day he told me that it is over. I don't what happened? Why did he dump me?

Well that is probably you got dumped... you had no idea why you were getting dumped... most of the time it springs from not communicating well with your mate or special someone. When both are on the same footing... then both understands and can began to fill each others needs.

snowboarding_chick · Dec 26, 2007, 09:51 PM

Originally Posted by shanny_2006

Everyhting was going well for me and my boyfriend. We have been together for about 7months and I thought everything was good, until one day he told me that it is over. I don't what happened? Why did he dump me?

You won't know what's going on inside his head unless you just ask him

vinit_shan · Dec 27, 2007, 05:39 AM

Originally Posted by shanny_2006

Everyhting was going well for me and my boyfriend. We have been together for about 7months and I thought everything was good, until one day he told me that it is over. I don't what happened? Why did he dump me?

I think that u lucky that he dumpd u aftr 7 months... coz if u wld waste mor money and time in tis relation and than end up in a faild reltn it wld have ben mor painful... rite? There is more in tis life tat u can xplore,foget it and start a new life.. all da bst