[maxconners]

I'm one of those people that love how a girl looks and I am afraid to go into a relationship because I know myself... if I see a better looking chick I might just move on... and I've been in a relationship that didn't work out... a girl had an amazing personality... but... she had my pet peves... she had hair... everywhere! So that didn't work out and it went visa versa... a beautiful girl but... she was.. ANNOYING!! Just need some self-correctinng advice

[Torrid13]

You need to get over yourself, and the notion that there's a woman out there that doesn't have flaws. You let an amazing woman go because she had too much hair?

You're not perfect, so don't expect others to be, too. It's not going to happen, and wishing will only get yourself disappointment.

Have you ever thought that maybe YOU'RE annoying to a woman? Perhaps all of this stems from your own lack of self-esteem.

Work on yourself first before looking for a relationship. If need be, go to a psychiatrist to work through these issues.

[redhed35]

Have you tried just dating.. without heading straight into a relationship?

Dating for me,means,getting to know someone before you decide on a relationship.

I'm going to assume your human with flaws,just like everyone else!

Just dating for now without making any promises possibly is the solution to your question,relationships take work,just date,until you reach a level of maturity where you can see past the flaws.

[slapshot_oi]

.she had hair.....everywhere! so that didnt work out...

Ahahaha that is epic.

The older you get, more bad choices you make and the more women you date, the less picky you'll be.

It takes time to see people differently. You have to become the change you wish to see.

[sweet1028]

My questions:

How old are you?

Do you have flaws?

Are you perfect?

? 1. If you are a young boy, you need to realize that every girl out there in the REAL world is not going to look like women you look at in the magazines under your mattress. Chances are if you are thinking like this... you will never find Mrs. Right even if she is right in front of your face!

? 2 : If the answer is no, then us "humans" in here can't help you. Because you have to of another species from another planet if there is totally nothing at all wrong with you.

If the answer is yes, then how do you expect a perfect woman with no flaws if you have them yourself?

?3 : If yes, have you been put in the World Records book yet because you are the first one that I know who is perfect.

If no, same things applies as question 2, there's no woman out there that is perfect either.

I'm not being mean but this is reality. There is only one perfect person, but I don't want to start the drama of religion on here.

There is however, a perfect girl for YOU out there. She may not be perfect, but together you two will be perfect for each other. Good Luck finding that special someone, because once you do it throws out all flaws and she is perfect in your eyes. Even if she isn't "perfect" to the world!