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Jul 20, 2009, 01:29 AM
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In Love With Two!
I have been dating this nice guy named Chase for about 5 months. We had a good relationship for a while, but then he stopped texting me. When we see each other in person, we have a good time, but then he ignores me for weeks. I was feeling bad about it one day at a camp I was at and this guy named Collin comforted me and made me feel better. I continued to feel bad and every time I would, Collin would make me feel better. I began to like Collin A LOT. One day when Collin and I had to get something from another building at camp, he told me that he was going to break up with his girlfriend. I asked him why and he said that he loved me better. He knew I was dating Chase but he didn’t care. Collin is an amazing guy and I love him very much and I don't know what to do. Should I break up with Chase and date Collin or should I stay with Chase?? HELP! (Chase=13, Me=13, Collin=15):(:confused:
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Jul 20, 2009, 04:01 AM
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It doesn't sound like you need to break up with Chase it already sounds like you are just an after thought in his life if he is only seeing you or even calling you occasionally.
I would just tell him that you don't feel that you have much of a commitment or much of a relationship with him to sit around waiting on him so you are moving on without him.
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Jul 20, 2009, 11:24 AM
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 Originally Posted by N0help4u
It doesn't sound like you need to break up with Chase it already sounds like you are just an after thought in his life if he is only seeing you or even calling you occassionally.
I would just tell him that you don't feel that you have much of a commitment or much of a relationship with him to sit around waiting on him so you are moving on without him.
Thank you so much! To be honest, I have lost sleep over this trying to find a solution that was right there in front of me. Thanks Again!! :)
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Jul 20, 2009, 11:34 AM
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Awwww ;) I think that its nice that Collin have these feelings for you. Yeah I agree, there is no need for you to wait around on Chase. Obviously he isn't thinking about you
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Jul 21, 2009, 10:39 PM
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Well Colin seems to be there when your in need compared to chase where he shows up when he wants to what I'm understanding... if you really care about someone wouldn't u want to be with them as much as you can? Not clinging to him though but if your rarely seeing him then I'd say go with colin at least he's there a lot more than chase is... u know what I mean?
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Jul 21, 2009, 10:42 PM
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Chase is a goober and Colin knows a good thing when he sees it.
Doesn't sound like rocket science to me!
Although, I would be wary of dating someone who is able to drop their significant other without a second glance. It could happen to you.
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Jul 21, 2009, 10:49 PM
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I agree with Torrid colin could do the same thing to u like he did to his "new Ex"
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Jul 21, 2009, 11:35 PM
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 Originally Posted by Zidanef900
i agree with Torrid colin could do the same thing to u like he did to his "new Ex"
Well, as it turns out, Collin and Stephanie did break up. But Collin wasn't the one doing the dumping. Stephanie dumped him because she thinks that we would make a better couple and that I probably like him more than she ever did. I'm still trying to contact Chase to try to work this out before I do anything drastic because Chase was a nice guy for a while... I Just Thought I should keep everyone posted!
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Jul 22, 2009, 05:15 AM
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I would give Collin a chance.
Like torrid said Chase is a goober and Collin sounds caring.
What do you have to lose?
Many guys will put on a front and only let you see the side that they want you to see. Like oh you like outdoors and being active, so do I.
Then once they think they have you head over heels for them they take you for granted.
You should give Collin a chance as opposed to staying with Chase. Chase is not all that interested from what you have said.
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Jul 22, 2009, 04:16 PM
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You should go out with collin he respect you way more. If he going to brake up with his girl friend then you no he serious about you. Chase seem like he an hope this helps
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