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    emilyrose Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 20, 2009, 08:19 PM
    I'm so confused?
    I met a guy one night at the bar we had a reali fun time ans we hooked up... I gave him my number never reali expecting him to call he ended up calling the next day and we talked just a little for a week ended up hanigng out he took me on dates and we reali like each other I could tell he really liked me... this was going on for a month and then one day he incvited me over to his house I was excited... 20 min later I get a call and he sais he can't do this anymore that I am too young( I'm 19 he's 25) he said he was afraid we wold hang out tonight for the first time at one of our houses and we woukld take things to the next level and then it wouldn't work cause I'm so much younger.. I respected it and delted his number so I wouldn't call and then a month later I saw him at the beach he said hi I said hi and just walked away then I get a text later that night and he said it was reali good to see me and he was stupid to end things and he is sorry and that he wants to see me and I said I had plans he called again the next night and I said I had plans and we talked for a little he seemd disapointed that I didn't see him but he ed me over and I didn't want to just run to him its been 2 days and I haven't heard from him but I don't want to text him do you think he will call again?. and does that reali mean he thought about it and regreted it or I can't believe him?. I just don't want him to hurt me again what do I do? And is he going to call again?. > I reali like him and I don't think I'm too young I'm at his matrity level and would love a relationship
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    Jul 20, 2009, 08:27 PM

    I know you don't want to get hurt again hon. But honestly it might have been a simple mistake, he might be telling the truth and maybe you should give him another chance. If it happens again, then I wouldn't talk to him again, but if you don't give him another chance, you would wonder about it for the rest of your life. Who knows, he COULD be 'the one' ;) good luck hon
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    Jul 20, 2009, 08:39 PM

    Give him a chance to redeem himself and try not to set your expectations too high!
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    Jul 20, 2009, 08:46 PM

    If he keeps calling and sincerely wants to try again, I don't see why you can't take him up on his offer. But as someone else said, don't set your expectations too high.

    Take it slow, too. No sense of rushing something, especially if you're confused about it!
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    Jul 20, 2009, 09:30 PM

    In my opinion your just a piece of meat to him.

    I wouldn't go for it- he's been wishy washy and told you that it wouldn't work out because of your age. I really doubt those feelings changed; funny if he had that revelation when he saw you at the beach...

    Well anyway this is just my opinion.

    Sarah
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    Jul 20, 2009, 10:03 PM

    I'm sort of 50/50 on this one as we don't really have all the info... what does your gut feeling tell you??

    It's normally right!

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