[jm123]

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I have went to school with this girl for a few years and never really noticed her but one month ago I met her at the local fair we rode some rides then I called her the next day to see if she wanted to hang out so we have been hanging out just about everyday since except for 3 days and she had a boyfriend when I started hanging with her but then he broke up with her because "we would make a better couple" she didn't seem upset so we hung out about 10 more days and I told her I liked her and asked her out she said she didn't want a boyfriend now but she tells me she really likes me and I really like her what should I do? oh and sometimes she acts like she wants to be more than friends like yesterday we were riding in the truck and from nowhere she spins around and lays her legs on mine and another time (same day)we were messing around and flirting and she was trying to get the tennis ball from my hand(just an excuse to hold my hand and put her arms around me and hold me)what should I do? I really like her and want a relationship?

[BlackVY]

Simple, listen to her, give her time, be her friend, and when she is ready to have a boyfriend, she will let you know.

Something I like about this girl is that she does seem to care about you and doesn't want to just date you on the rebound, so that says a lot about her and I hope you realize that.

This is the good part, because you like this girl and she does like you too, but doesn't want the whole serious relationship thing now, the best thing for you to do is to just be friends with her, enjoy her company, enjoy your time together and see what happens when she is ready.

All the best :)

[daffyd]

Dude you should keep hanging with her, even more than you have been already. Give her a full week .if she doesn't come around by then . Go on with your life and start agai and with another girl.

[MissRissa]

She just got out of a break up and she probably wants to take things slow right now and just have some fun. If she did automatically start dating you I would be worried that she is using you as a rebound so it's probably a good thing you two aren't dating. Just give her some time and enjoy the way things are. Enjoy her company. Don't push for anything. Good luck! : )

[I wish]

Sounds like she just wants to play again and be flirty.

She already knows how you feel. She said she doesn't want a boyfriend for now. So back off a bit. Furthermore, you should give her more to time recover from her breakup.

But it sounds like she has it really good right now. You do whatever she wants, but she doesn't have to make a commitement. Don't look for her anymore, go do your own thing and let her find you. That will tell you how interested she really is.

Please keep all your questions about the same issue in the same thread. So that we can give you better advice:

[ZoeMarie]

Yeah, I would try not to be so available. Sometimes people need some time apart to sort out their feelings and what they want. Sounds like she likes you but is confused and in turn is confusing you.