[Deary10]

I read another thread in the adult sexuality category about a girl not feeling pleasure in sex. And there are many answers in the thread that seem reasonable, but not satisfying my needs.

The thing is, when I have sex, yes. It IS with a man I love. I do feel turned on in the situation. He is not using me for it so I fully trust him and he trusts and respects me too. And we've tried different positions and what not, and foreplay.

Although I still feel nothing. And in the other thread it is told people feel something out of masturbation and oral. Yes, I've tried that too. I even tried to make myself more horny than enough, and that still doesn't change affect. So it seems my brain doesn't work with sexuality. Hell, my boyfriend says I am also very wet every time we do it and he makes it seem like he hasn't seen anything like it before.

So I don't know what to do, besides going to a gynecologist. But in the other thread, it is also said that the gynecologist told the girl that she has to be into it or something like that? I'm into it, and I still feel absolutely nothing. So lord help me or I suppose I'm forever the virgin!

[brittie_xoxo]

I'm the same way! Some people say it's the guy's size
But my boyfriend has a perfect size and he's my first. I think it can be just a girl
Thing;there's so many toys and everything. I found out if you do the "ride"
Thing it feeels more satisfying and using the k.y intense stuff. Also masturbating
Until you get close and then actually going at it with your love makes it a lot better too.

:o ha I felt weird answering this question. But also happy cause I'm not the
Only one. :)