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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:34 AM
    2 months pregnant & no signs of pegnancy.
    I'm 2 months pregnant and for the past 2 weeks I haven't had any signs of pregnancy I'm not tired anymore not nasuea no headaches nothing and I'm just wondering what this could mean? I still haven't gotten my period either and I'm waiting to see if I will get it whithin the next week which will be my normal date... any advicee?
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:39 AM

    Not all women experience problems with pregnancy.I felt quite well throughout both of mine ,barring the usual complaints.
    It is not a sickness and should not be considered one.
    If you are pregnant ,why would you be anticipating getting your period?
    If you care to elaborate on that ,we can discuss this further.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:43 AM

    See I'm only 16 & I haven't told my parents yet; because if I do they will kick me out, and I'm still looking for a clinic that I can go to because I do not have $700.00 and no inurance & I thought maybe if the signs went away I could be about to miscarry; yes I'm young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you weren't responsible and we were used a condom and everything.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM
    That doesn't make sense.
    How did you confirm your pregnancy? Not everyone experiences symptoms the same.
    I don't understand why you are waiting for your period if you are pregnant. Do you think that magically you became 'not pregnant' that is why you don't have symptoms at two months?
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM

    It's normal. Most women don't have any symptons of pregnancy that early.

    I'm sure you will be feeling something (cravings, moodswings, etc) soon lol.

    Congrats on your pregnancy!
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rawrx0 View Post
    see im only 16 & i havent told my parents yet; becuase if i do they will kick me out, and im still looking for a clinic that i can go to becuase i do not have $700.00 and no inurance & i thought maybe if the signs went away i could be about to miscarry; yes im young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you werent responsible and we were used a condom and everything.
    Did you have a positive pregnancy test?
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rawrx0 View Post
    see im only 16 & i havent told my parents yet; becuase if i do they will kick me out, and im still looking for a clinic that i can go to becuase i do not have $700.00 and no inurance & i thought maybe if the signs went away i could be about to miscarry; yes im young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you werent responsible and we were used a condom and everything.
    I would have thought about the pill. You are right you are in a heap of a predicament, but you do have options, most of which will have to be discussed with your parents. A magic fairy isn't going to take away your pregnancy and help you wake up from your nightmare.

    First, you are going to have to talk to your parents, the sooner the better. You aren't going to be able to hide a pregnancy from them for 9 months.

    Second, you have options and support available to you. You are in a serious situation and you need to weigh all of your options because being a young single mother is something you shouldn't go through and something you can't even begin to imagine.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:48 AM

    Yeah so that's how I figured I was pregnant and I've been looking up information and everything just to try and see what's going on and I just been trying to save up money for an abortion but its just impossible for me to get all that money.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:50 AM
    You have to talk to your parents, you can't get out of this without them.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:53 AM

    I wish you knew them; they won't help me at all, especially since my dad is sick & all my moms concers are to making sure she can help him with his kidney failure and to find a doner and him being paralyzed and everythings it really hard... are there any clinics in Brooklyn that will help me if I have no money or insurance? Don't they have to help someone with no money & income?
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:54 AM

    Do you have a welfare office in your town? They may be able to help. But like eveyone else says, you should really really talk to your parents
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rawrx0 View Post
    yeah so thats how i figured i was pregnant and ive been looking up information and everything just to try and see whats going on and i just been trying to save up money for an abortion but its just impossible for me to get all that money.
    You really need to tell your parents.
    I do not think they can legally throw you out,I could be wrong.
    Also ,if you are planning on an abortion,there is a limited amount of time when you can do that legally.
    If you have a family friend ,a friends parent who can help you talk to them,you must do that now.
    If you tell me where you live I will see what recources are available in your area.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:56 AM

    You don't even know if you are pregnant and are already planing an abortion? Go to planned parenthood!
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:57 AM
    You are sixteen, they won't do any procedure without your parent's consent to my knowledge.
    You are up a huge creek with a short paddle.

    Your family has so much on their plate, why the rebellion? Don't you think your mom could use your support and assistance?

    How can we help first because this is a big problem, bigger then just coming up with the cost. You will need a support system following such a procedure, as it will be emotionally devastating.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM

    Here is a link for planned parenthood in Brooklyn
    Planned Parenthood - New York City
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy View Post
    you dont even know if you are pregnant and are already planing an abortion? go to planned parenthood!
    Positive pregnancy test usually means pregnancy.
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM

    I live in Brooklyn in New York, and they do abortions here up until 6 months, but I don't want to wait that long & is it normal to have had the signs of pregnancy & now there gone?
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    Jul 17, 2009, 08:59 AM

    Sorry, I guess I mised where she said she tested
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    Jul 17, 2009, 09:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    You are sixteen, they won't do any procedure without your parent's consent to my knowledge.
    You are up a huge creek with a short paddle.

    Your family has so much on their plate, why the rebellion? Don't you think your mom could use your support and assistance?

    How can we help first because this is a big problem, bigger then just coming up with the cost. You will need a support system following such a procedure, as it will be emotionally devastating.
    Oddly enough they will according to their website.Unless I am reading it wrong.
    Teens' Rights to Services & Confidentiality - Planned Parenthood - New York City
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    Jul 17, 2009, 09:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rawrx0 View Post
    i live in Brooklyn in New York, and they do abortions here up until 6 months, but i dont wanna wait that long & is it normal to have had the signs of pregnancy & now there gone?
    Yes.

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