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smoothy · Jul 15, 2009, 09:34 AM

He needs to see that doctor... if he isn't whacking off several times a day to the porn that isn't the reason for his problem. While pain MIGHT be an issue with that, I'm not sure it is. I know in my case with a lot of pain its usually an all or nothing issue. But I guess it might not be enough to kill it altogether, but it might be enough to provide suficient distraction to make finishing difficult.

That's might very well be the case as distraction is a very effective means to delay ejaculation for sometimes several hours of intercourse. I developed that technique myself about 30 years ago (before there were books on it or the WWW) so I know it works.

I think he might be reluctant to admit the probelem is physical and is willing to blame anything else. But a Doctor might be able to see throuh the distractions and find a root cause, and treat it if possible. Guys get really funny about performance issues... the last thing they are willing to accept is their own physical problems.

Chey5782 · Jul 15, 2009, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by smoothy

He needs to see that doctor....if he isn't whacking off several times a day to the porn that isn't the reason for his problem. While pain MIGHT be an issue with that, I'm not sure it is. I know in my case with a lot of pain its usually an all or nothing issue. But I guess it might not be enough to kill it alltogether, but it might be enough to provide suficient distraction to make finishing difficult.

Thats might very well be the case as distraction is a very effective means to delay ejaculation for sometimes several hours of intercourse. I developed that technique myself about 30 years ago (before there were books on it or the WWW) so I know it works.

I think he might be reluctant to admit the probelem is physical and is willing to blame anything else. But a Doctor might be able to see throuh the distractions and find a root cause, and treat it if possible. Guys get really funny about performance issues....the last thing they are willing to accept is their own physical problems.

I need to get a book... lol

Catsmine · Jul 15, 2009, 10:12 AM

When you guys go to the Doctor, ask for a prostate exam. He won't like it but the gradual increase of the problem you mentioned a couple of times might indicate the problem being there.

njett566 · Jul 18, 2009, 03:04 PM

If he really likes porn then tell him that you want to make your own porn video it may spice things up and evoke an orgasm