[Renkah]

I have been going out with this guy for 7months now. He has a 3year old daughter…he says they got the kid when they were courting but never got married…now the lady has refused to let go of him….. I don’t know if he’s telling me the truth…I have never been to his house and when I suggested it…he refused…coz he leaves with relatives…

The other day I phoned him and the lady picked up his call….and said he was the wife…I hung up. When I called later he picked up. And when I questioned him. He told me to ask the lady directly he was even giving her the phone….
I am puzzled coz…the guy spends most tym with me…and if I ask him to spend the night with me he never hesitates…..

My dilemma is if he is married how come he has the guts to show the wife that he has an affair outside? And why doesn’t he invite me to his house if truly the only bond they have is the kid

A friend of his said that the lady went back to her home….because of frustrations
I also broke up with him because of his insularity
Did I do the right thing? And if so how do I get over him because am very in love with him.

[danielnoahsmommy]

It is time to move on. He is married and has a child. He has lied to you. If both of you ever married he would do to you, the same as he has done to his wife.