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girardbigrd2008 · Jul 14, 2009, 06:05 PM

Well my name is wally and I really am confused. You see I'm new at this stuff so I don't know how much little to give but I want my ex back. I'm 18 and I met my ex were I am currently working. She is the most considered person I have met you see she is the perfect one for me. She was in love with me the first day I met her she works in the kitchen at the nursing home and I was introduced to her in July. She was attracted to me right away so I got her number and we went out and she met my parents. We started dating the next month. We went on dates and went to each others houses but then she wanted to take a step further. She wanted to have sex. Well I am virgin and I told her that she said she was fine with it. I no it may sound weird but I want to be abstences until married. Well she didn't like that and after three months she broke up with me. We are always working together she makes me laugh and I make her laugh, also we make jokes about each other to so could someone help me figure this out I am still in love with her but she just wants to be friends .

zippit · Jul 14, 2009, 06:11 PM

There's not much you can do because you want to abstain from sex until married which is camendable,but face it she wants something different is she a virgin? And if not and you pursue a relationship with her are you going to be OK with the fact she has had sex with someone else?awkward

Alty · Jul 14, 2009, 06:28 PM

Find someone else, this girl wants more then you're willing to give and she's trying to pressure you into it. Walk away.

If a girl came on this site and said her boyfriend dumped her because she wouldn't have sex, I'd tell her to run, he doesn't give a damn about her.

I'm telling you the same thing.

Friends, yes, more, no.

You'll find someone that has the same values as you, just keep looking.

Good luck.

N0help4u · Jul 14, 2009, 09:12 PM

It is not weird to want to be a virgin until you meet someone special that you know isn't going to break your heart. I admire anybody that wants to wait.
She sounds like she is more interested or concerned about getting sex than maybe seeing if there could be a real future for the two of you.
You love her because you have gotten to know qualities that you really like about her but if she is not willing to give love back then you have a one way street that isn't going to work.