[xXx-Elena-xXx]

I'm having a problem.. im 14 years old and I have or had.. idk a girlfriend..
When we were at school 5 girls that I knew came up to me yelling hey! Korina wants to talk to you (the gf) (idk)
Um.. and they were pulling my my arms and I was like aaaah!?
And when I got there where korina was at.. we were all shy (me and her)
Then she asked me do you want to go out with me and I said yes... then after school she said ill see you when I invite you to the movies.. but we haven't seen each other in like 10 days.. my birthday was July 6 but she didn't call or anything to say happy bd..
We have msn and she said let me have your email so I can add you.. I gave it to her I said " i miss you" and she said she missed me as well..
But..
When she added me I saw her display name saying I love you eduardo..
And I was like huh?
Then we were talking about two new cds I got for my bd and I said id give her one then she said that's what friends are for.. "friends"?.
Then I was crying for like an hour wondering if she still likes me or if she just wanted to play around with me.. but I don't know beacause the day after she asked me to go out with her she sent a text saying.. I love you and I said or text it back I really do love her.. but now.. idk if she forgot that were together or?. idk please I need some advice..
How do I know if she likes me or loves me? I don't know what to do.. im deppressed.. :(

[N0help4u]

She probably is waiting on you to show you care. It sounds like you both like each other but you are both waiting for the other to take it a step further. Be more confident and assertive. Be a friend and not back off or shy away. She may take your shying away as meaning you may not be that interested.

Also you have to be friends before you can have a solid relationship so don't be puzzled by her saying friend.

Open communication without the shyness is what you need.

[xXx-Elena-xXx]

I have been friends with her for a while now..
There's more to it when we were at school she always ignored me but she stopped but I don't know if she asked me to go out with her for that or?.
I love her a lot!
But I don't know how she would ask me out then say what she said to me...
I don't know if she forgot that she asked me out or?. idk.. I just really want to be with her..
How can I tell if she likes me or wants to be with me.. idk about tis eduardo guy
I'm afraide to even ask her if we are still gong out, I don't know what to do.. :(

[xXx-Elena-xXx]

Please help..

[N0help4u]

Oh I wasn't sure if you were eduardo or not.
I think she probably made eduardo up to keep guys from asking her out.

It sounds like she may be yanking your chain and seeing if you will take the bait. In other words she may be totally not interested and doing it just to mess with your head (& heart)

[xXx-Elena-xXx]

Aww.. mabey your right.. but she is very loving.. I wouldn't understand why she would do something like that..
She has been through a tough realationship with this guy and she was crying for a month beacause he went back with his ex but I was always by her side I really care about her I even slept at her house for a few days so that she wouldn't feel alone.. I am agirl just so you know.. I am bi she is too so please don't make fun of me.. you seem nice I don't think you would though.. hmm.. I wonder when I will see her again I miss her.. can iask you soething? How do you upload a photo?. when I'm with her I feel so awsome but when she always used to ignore me I felt that she didn't even think I existed.. what should I do?

[N0help4u]

All you can do is be there for her and prove your friendship eventually she will come around.

[xXx-Elena-xXx]

Ok: ) I appriciate your help. Thank you.: )