Why don't you talk to him?
I know it's really difficult, but it must be frustrating for him as well. There are lots of techniques that can be used to help guys to last longer, and if you talk about it, and get some help, it will potentially bring you closer together.
You can also work on the fact that you haven't had an orgasm and focus on doing things that you like.
All of this involves communication - good sex often doesn't come naturally, it has to be a process of negotiation and experimentation.
If you do love him, then isn't it worth making an effort to work it out?
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