[bailey67]

Im going to be a freshman this coming August.
In the 7th grade I had my first kiss with my boyfriend who was a grade above me.
I haven't kissed a guy since then nor have a ever made out.
I reallyreallyreally want to makeout with someone or have another kiss with someone before I go into high school, because I am litterely the only one who hasn't! And I don't want it t be that way.
I am totally all for it and I want to make out with my boyfriend very badly, I'm not scared for it, but I am scared for the awkwardness that there might be afterwards.
I don't know what to do.
Any advice?
I need it all.
Help?
Please!

[BlackVY]

So ummm... why would it be awkward afterward with your boyfriend?

In my opinion, a kiss or a makeout session is quite normal, but just don't cross any lines and know your limits, both of you.

[danielnoahsmommy]

You think everybody has done it and is doing it? You are wrong. That is what they want you to believe. You are obviously not ready. If you were you would not be asking this question. Don't rush growing up.

[Faiz03]

:) The Way U take it! Is The Way u See it! Don't Worrry What Others Say! Do What u Believe in!

[Jake2008]

Is it some sort of contest? Do you need to have a makeout session as a requirement for your friends not to think you're a dweeb or something?

So, why not just target somebody, tell them up front you really, really, really want to have a makeout session, because it is a must -do before the school year begins.

Just pick a guy, any guy, as long as he has lips and fingers, and make out. What's the problem. Or does it matter who its with, or is a complete stranger okay? If you're using somebody to get what you really really really want, what does it matter who it is.

To have this as a 'goal' is frightening to me. What's the next step, getting pregnant? Using another guy, leading him on, so that you have a date for the prom?

Using people shouldn't be part of the agenda. Using people to make out, is very immature, selfish, deceptive, and dangerous.

That you haven't done that, is a far better place to be, than having done it. This club you want to belong to sounds emotionally bankrupt to me.

[Fr_Chuck]

It is easy, just find some boys who are having a contest to be the first to score with some girl.

Contest are stupid. First you are far from the only girl, in fact the most have not done more and many have not even had the kiss.

[N0help4u]

Why rush things?
And if your feelings and his feelings are really strong for each other you probably wouldn't feel awkward.
To me it makes more sense to wait until you both know you want to be bf/gf than to get into something you are not ready or sure where it is going.
I have seen girls lose bf's in school because neither one was ready for a relationship. Then when the one was the other was 'over them'
Or are you just looking for make out and don't care if it doesn't go anywhere?