[andystak]

Again, please let me know of any advice any of you have on this one... I could use it... :)

[slapshot_oi]

I just did not see this coming AT ALL.

I know how you feel. I've said the same thing before, but in retrospect all the signs were there and they did catch my attention at the time, I just chose to ignore them; you're doing the same.

Basically, I am asking what you guys would do if you were me in this situation, how I should be tomorrow night around her and with her. Because, I really want to give this the best possible shot of reconciliation if there is a chance of it.

Well, what I would do is not see her anymore. Neither of you are getting anything out of it except for anxiety. She wants a relationship much different from your ideal relationship, so as far as reconciliation goes, I think your chances are very slim.

[andystak]

Thanks Slapshot.

Well, I am going to take her up on her offer of taking me out on my birthday. I will get a good feel for things tonight. But I plan on just being myself and having a good time and just enjoying the company.

I think I owe it to myself to at least try.

You know, I believe that all of us have that one person from our past that we felt a strong way for. I know I have. I just think that her feelings on this are sudden and that she needs time to deal with her feelings. But I am going into it with the mindset to prepare for the worst. And I think I need this tonight to help me whether reconciliation takes place. In other words, it will help me in the healing process because no matter what happens, I will know that I gave it my best shot and will not wonder the what if's years from now.

[andystak]

talaniman, I respect what you have to say... What is your take on this? Anyone else?

[talaniman]

Well, I am going to take her up on her offer of taking me out on my birthday. I will get a good feel for things tonight. But I plan on just being myself and having a good time and just enjoying the company.

Have a Happy Birthday