[Chin-Chee]

I went up and introduced myself a little over a month ago to this boy I REALLY REALLY REALLY like and we talked a little and we became friends that night... a couple weeks passed and I didn't think that he was taken or talking with anybody so I just couldn't wait to see if he was going to make a move if he liked me or not so I wrote him a note and said some stuff and asked him to be my boyfriend in(except in different words) and I gave it to him, and the next day I asked him at the beginning of class what he thought and in a really nice way he had said that he was already talking to somebody, feeling like an idiot I said oh I'm so sorry and he said it was perfectly fine and gave me a hug usually in the past I would have to say hi to him first before he would say anything to me and after that happened I was headed to a class to do something and he was walking by me and said hey ------and I was like hi------ and I just couldn't believe it and since then he started giving me hugs when I wasn't expecting it and saying hi to me randomly.. and one night I seen him at a restruant about a week and a half ago which I didn't know HE WORKED THERE! And I went up to him and said hey ----- and he said hey and just gave me a hug! And I gave him a hug like a min later because he had said he had a bad day.. and we hadtalked for a very long time... and when I was going to go eat dinner he gave me another hug and I went to eat and came back a little later and we talked some more.. sadly after having so much fun with the one I loved I had to go I stood up and began walking out of the room and he gave me another hug! Omgosh.. I just couldn't believe it! I got 4 hugs from him that night... btw.. when we first talked on oct.3 I asked to get a picture with him and he put his arm around me first!. we talk everyday and there was a day when I was down and he just came up and hugged me! And said I hope this makes you feel better because you kind of look like down like you were having a bad day. And he speaks to me first everyday! And gives me hugs like its nothing... I am wondering does he like me like me? Is this a sign of something? I need some help so some 1 please reply to this! And by the way what is some ways to attract him towards me? Like make him like me even more!

OK that was then... just wanted to refresh memory because, there is more now! That I need help with



OK so back in Feb this year this boy had made a couple of bad comments about me that hurt veryy veryy mucH! I found out about them in April and that's when it really hurt! I think eventually he found out about it, and I think he may have felt bad which I don't for sure. One of his senior friends was saying hi to me first. And I didn't know why. This boy started talking to me more, but our relationship seemed to have shot down the drain, so I decided to just forget it!

Well he was leaving for this month to go back to where he originally was from.
I seen him login one day and decided to ask him about how his summer was he said it was crappy( but using another word) yours? And I was like I'm sorry to hear that blah blah blah.
but he responded... and mentioned hey----- call me sometime and gave me his number he appologized and said he was just about to leave and said that he would love for me to text him sometime. I gave him my number and he signed off.

I texted him shortly after and I said well hey I didn't know if u got my number or not and said here it is and he responded back with a smiley.:)

and a foregin exchange student just left for his original country a couple of weeks ago. And we were talking on I'm and he asked me how this boy was. OUT OF ALL PEOPLE HE ASKED ME! And I was like well he gave me his number, etc. and he was like have u called him, and I was like no, and he said you need to call him and see what he wants. And so I left him a message, and again no response but apparently he was at sixflags that day.

after that he never responded to any text messages after that and it made me upset.

so about 6 days later he logged in onto I'm and I thought it was him and they responded saying it was this girl one of his friends from where he was at. We began talking and she was asking me like:
do you have a boyfriend?
do you like anyone?
how did you meet ---?
etc.
and I thought it was awful odd that she was asking me these things and she knew nothing about me. I tried to ask stuff about her but she seeemed to get supicous. She got onto his cousins and said it was one of her friends. And talked for a little while longer then signed off. And that was the end of her.

I called a friend and we had talked about it. She thought that there was something not right about this. So she sends him this email to his email:


Hello ******, I'm ****. You've probably seen me around with ******. I have a few things to say to you but I wanted to get a few things clear first:
1)**** did NOT tell me to write this, I just have a habit of standing up for my friends.
2)This is NOT meant to be mean or sound mean, so if it does, sorry, I tried.

Ok, the real reason. Of course you know that **** likes you, and judging by the things you said about her to **** it seems you don't feel the same way, (yes, I know about those words you two exchanged, not exactly thrilled about them either). But a few things have happened recently that are very suspicous. One, you gave her your number, which would lead anyone to believe that either you like her or you wanted to talk to her. And you have yet to talk to her except to say that you couldn't talk to her. Also *** asked **** on Facebook IM how you were doing. Why would *** ask **, of all people? How is she supposed to know? And then he said she should call you. Why? Is there a reason? And this *** (however she spells it) business comes up. And if you want my honest opinion, I don't think there is an ***, or if there is, you were involved in this somehow. Why would "Abby" be talking to a girl she's never met, and on top of that, why would she be asking Sarah who she likes, and what features ***** likes in you? See my point? This is all really messed up, and I think there's something going on behind all this and if there is, or even if there's not, **** needs to know NOW! She's hurting, this isn't funny, I don't know what type of game you're playing, but it needs to end. This isn't fair to ***. I don't know why you gave her your number, and honestly, I don't care, that's between you and her. I'm just saying, I have a very strong feeling there's more to this then you giving **** your number, and random people popping up into it. *****'s told me she's hurt by all this, and I could hear it in her voice. So if you have a heart, clear this up. I'm tired of seeing her hurt, and I'm especially tired of seeing her hurt over you. I've told her I don't think she should have anything to do with you after the whole, "She looks like Darla off of Finding Nemo" and "I don't like her liking me, it's annoying." Pretty jerky if you ask me. But she still likes you. You know that, and I don't think she could handle another heartbreak like the last time. So if you're going to just screw around with her heart, please, please, don't. So, I'm going to end it now. Just talk to her, clear this mess up. Please.

-*************
so he writes back the next day:


Ok, *****,
First thing to you!
I did give **** my number, And while I'm on vacation ( I like to call it work! ) I have a lot of things going on! I am very busy! I am looking at colleges, apartments, and jobs. All while trying to spend time with my family! I will talk to *** when I get the time! Wich happens to be today! I was just about to text her until I thought I would check my inbox and saw this! Don't get me wrong I still am but DAMN! Anyway! There is an ****, I told her about **** because she asked me if there was anyone that liked me back home, wich leads me to my next point. She ended up going on to my myspace profile(I left it on while I went for a jog) and saw that *** was on! When I came home I saw the conversation, and on the date I confronted her about it and she said she was just trying to figure some things out about me and her as well! (creapy I know!) And on our date! UGH, she turned out to be a real thank you! The date went horrible! Thank you for your concern but I feel that it was not needed! I'm a big boy and can handle these things myself!
-*****

he DID aplogize and say that he was really sorry for what this girl waas saying to me!

we texted after he got the email for quite awhile as well to. And the ifrst two texts I tried to give a hint I was confused about what was going on, but he changed the subject leading to something else, and never got solved.
ABout midnight that night we talked for about a half hour he said I could call him in 45 min, it lead to 15 min! It was a nice half hour conversation to. And I only texted him once since then we were both a little busy and he said he would talk to me later and smiled.(smiley)

me and a friend think that there is something planned and we don't know if it is good or bad! This is not a chain! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME! I need answers! PLEASE!:confused:

[tntdynamite]

Ok, I'm the friend who emailed him, so that's why it's going to sound like I know a lot about the situation, because I do.
Anyway, I do think that there is something going on behind the scenes that we don't know about, whether it's good or bad I don't know. But I brought it up in the email, and in the email he sent back to me, he never even mentioned whether something was going on. And when you were talking to him on the phone, and you kept trying to bring it up, he would change the subject. If there was nothing to avoid, he wouldn't be avoiding it. So to sum all this up, yes, I do believe that something is going on.
I can't give you any answers, the only one that can is that boy. And it seems that he doesn't want to give you any. I'd give it a little while, and if nothing gets cleared up, I'd say forget about him, he's done and said hurtful things in the past about you, and I don't think that it'd be too much of a stretch for him to do it again.
So all I can really think of is, wait it out. And don't be so wrapped up in this guy that you can't let him go. If he's keeping things from you, and saying hurtful things, you need to let him go. You deserve better than that, and the sooner you realize that, the better. You can't hold on waiting and wishing for him to change, all the while you're getting hurt. If he was really worth your time he wouldn't be putting you through this. Just some things to think about.
Good luck!

[mudweiser]

Wow now that was a lot of nonsense.

If he liked you he would've made a move by now.

Looks like this guy doesn't really like you in that way. I suggest you move on and keep him as a friend.

Sarah

[talaniman]

1) That's a lot of drama over one guy

2) Having someone else reply to a your thread, using your account is not credible, but suspicious.

3) Whatever is going on, remove yourself from this whole situation, and stop being involved in ALL THIS DRAMA.

You had better watch who your dealing with and who you give your number to.

[hheath541]

How old are you guys?

[Chin-Chee]

Im 15 and The friend is 15 and the boy is 17