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    tears n me Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2009, 11:29 PM
    Love & doubts
    I'm a girl 23 yrs old. I'm in love with a guy. My love is true. But I was a friendly girl before I started loving him. I thought he understood me fully and loved me. But he is very sensitive and possessive. For him I left al my friends also. But he has every single incident happened in my past life. He says my love may be true now, but not tat time, he doubts my love. But then am very true to him. This makes me get depressed. At times I even think of committing suicide in stead of living this life were he doesn't believe me and thinks about my past each and every minute. But then I have a family. My mother my father. Am the only daughter. My death will surely affect them. I want him to forget things and live with me now from this moment as am true to him. But I don think so he'll forget. I hate living. I couldn't normal in my work place. I feel like resigning my job. I cry every time. I shout at my parents. But poor people they don't know anything about my problem I don't want them to know anything. Give me a solution. Am dying each moment.!
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    Jul 1, 2009, 08:33 PM

    He has issues that make your relationship not good. You need to get away for your sanity sake. No guy/no relationship should make you feel that way. He is controlling you like a puppet. You shouldn't have to prove your love by giving up your life, your friends, your personality or anything.
    You can not get him to realize he isn't right holding your past against you. He needs professional help to wake him up.
    Killing yourself is not the answer and staying miserable with him is not the answer.
    You need to get out of the relationship asap.
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    Jul 2, 2009, 06:32 AM

    Relationships are not suppose to be so difficult. I have a hard time understanding why you don't stop the pain and suffering and make a clean break.

    Why are you torturing yourself? Let him go and move on to better things in life.
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    Jul 3, 2009, 12:25 PM

    Its not you, its him, but your letting him. This as you see is very dangerous to YOU, as you see, and he is trying to control you.

    Get away from him, and talk to your mom as soon as you read this.

    He doesn't love you, but is using your love for him, against you.
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