And a Hi! Back at Ya T-girl5, And welcome to AMHD :)
With experience in working with bare root seedlings (brs) from the local Conservation District, one of the first items on the order states:
"Because of the nature of bareroot seedlings, they will not be guaranteed to grow"
This is because of the "Bang-Bang" nature of handling brs. "get'em out - get'em in"

Originally Posted by
T-girl5
Hi,
Recently I recieved a bare root red maple tree from someone really special to me. I didn't have the time nor appliances to plant the tree immediately so, as instructed I kept occasionally damped the roots and re-tied them in its original package (then stored it in a cool, dark enviornment).
This is a standard and acceptable practice.

Originally Posted by
T-girl5
A week later i planted the tree. However, since it was only 3 feet tall and currently with no leaves i decided to plant it in a large pot first. This, i found, was suitable until i found sufficient land space for it (hopefully once i get my own place).
Depending on the size of the tree they will not have leaves on them. 3' and no leaves is normal.
Your planting in a large container is also acceptable.

Originally Posted by
T-girl5
The third day after the tree was planted, i noticed it started shedding its outer coat. I was afraid the tree was drying and so i scratched the bark with my finger to see if it was still Green underneath but no, it was light brown/white. I scratched the base of the bark (close to the soil) and it still remains green.
It hasn't started budding yet nor does it show any signs of new leaves yet. Is my tree dead? or dying? help......
You have had this seedling for approx. 10 days, your friend maybe 3, its taken 2 to reach him/her, plus 1 or 2 for processing at the nursery.
At the minimum "Red" has been out of soil for two weeks, and I would say that she is in shock mode for lack of nutrients, the jell that is applied at the nursery can only last for maybe a week. She
may be dying, but she is
not dead yet.
So far I realize that I have painted a very bleak future for "Red".
*Keep her cool in a shaded area
*If you only have city water, let it stand in an open container for at least two days to let the Chlorine's evaporate, aerate water by tossing between container's
*Let soil dry before re-watering,
*Do not soak, once you see water run out of the bottom. Stop.
*If you used an enriched potting soil do not fertilize. If not, use only a very, very week solution.
*Do not concern yourself with budding right now. It will take her at least another week to come out of this shock.
*Do not "scratch" at her bark.
With a careful eye and Nature's will, She
will make it!
My Kindest Regards,
KUXJ
Edit:
Cut "but do not let re-watering go past the third day.", sounded confusing.
Once you notice the soil is dry, go one, maybe two days before giving another drink.