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Iamyourdady · Jun 28, 2009, 09:57 AM

Hi, please help me. My "girlfriend" can't really say she is that anymore, she said to me I am not sure about us anymore. There was a few thinks that happened back 2 months ago. First thing is that I was not sure myself and it took me 3 months to think about our relashion. We go out for 9 months now. 2 months ago we broke up because of her sister and father. Her sister 1 year ago loved me but I never did, now that I felt in love with my girlfriend she hate me and she try her best to stop me from going out with sister. Her father doesn't hate me but he doesn't want me to go out with her daugther because probably of her age and mine, I am 20 and she just got 17. I try my best to show that now I love her and that I will always be with her but she say that she love me but she is not sure. This is confusing but I believe her and by her side. This is already 2 months that we keep our relashion in secret. Help me please, what should I do ? I am trying everything but it doesn't work. Thanks alote.

talaniman · Jun 28, 2009, 10:11 AM

Dude, when someone is not sure about how they feel about you you back off and leave them alone. 9 times out of 10, when people are not sure, it's a nice way of saying bug off.

You have to many red flags here, friend, and ignoring them hurts you not her.

1- dad and sister against you, right or wrong, they are a wedge and they are family, you aren't.
2- ages, as she is still a minor and her parents are responsible for her whether you like it or not.
3-Her feelings for you are not that strong, and she sure ain't going against her family, so back it off, as your outnumbered, and out gunned.

chuff · Jun 28, 2009, 05:34 PM

If you have to keep a relationship a secret then it's not really a relationship is it. Can you blame her dad for looking out for his daughter? If a 20 year old was sneeking around with my 17 year old daughter I think you'd find yourself in a worse situation then this.

N0help4u · Jun 28, 2009, 06:00 PM

Are you saying that her sister liked you but you started dating her instead.

Then you said you weren't sure of your relationship with her.

Now you do want to be with her but she lost interest.

So now you want to date her sister that was interested in you before you started seeing your girlfriend?

Sounds to me like your girlfriend must not feel important to you if you can just go and try to rebound with her sister.