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    ninjaforce5 Posts: 18, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:35 PM
    Long distance relationships
    What do you think about a long distance relationship between a 19 year old guy and 16 year old girl? Between Pennsylvania and Washington.
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:40 PM

    A bad idea... it makes me wonder why this man is looking on the internet for a girl of 16. And why the girl is on the internet looking for older men...


    However... depending on each state, age of consent doesn't seem to be breeched... so... there isn't much more I can say.


    I would have to say I advise AGAINST meeting in person or sharing any personal info...
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:47 PM

    Sorry, I should have explained. He lives in Pennsylvania, but is going to Washington for college soon.. the whole story is on my other post.. but I am not sure what to do about it. If I should just forget about it or if the relationship would work.
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:49 PM

    Mmm your posts will probably be merged to help avoid confusion. Link me the other post so I can catch up.


    From what your telling me now I would say move on. Your young and though you may like this guy, if it won't work it won't work.

    However if you think your relationship can last long distance, go for it. But don't keep your hopes too high. Its POSSIBLE, but very hard.
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:55 PM

    How do I link you to it?
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    Jun 25, 2009, 03:57 PM

    Never mind I found it. Ill edit this post once I'm done reading it if my answer changes.


    *edit* I can't really say much more than what I have already said and what justwantitfair has told you as well... in the end its up to you. Do you want to try to continue the relationship, or do you not. It's a hard choice... but like is hard sometimes... good luck hon.
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    Jul 6, 2009, 10:57 AM

    I don't know the whole story, but it all depends on how you met.

    Were you looking for soemone or did it just happen.

    I have a friend who met a 20 yro guy when she was 16, online... it actually worked out (surprisingly) and they plan to marrry when she gets out of college.

    This is rare though.

    But I kind of have a similar situation as you ( I think) and I can only tell you to be verryy cautious.

    If you decide to meet up with him go to a public place and maybe have a friend go along with you.
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