[jolienoire]

actually they were a gift, but thanks for your great advice... You can leave anytime unless you have nothing better to do than poke fun.

Even more of a reason to let her keep them, they were a gift.

[Justwantfair]

I would just think that a $300 pair of glasses were worth taking care of.

[liz28]

Mikey some people had a greater loss than you. My friend was out of 3 grand when her ex left her.

[mikey49]

You're right... she knows where I work. I just moved over the weekend, so she no longer knows where I live. I'm pretty sure she will drop them off. And if not, oh well.

[broken_1]

Well.. my 0.02$
1. Sex on the first night has rarely been a good sign.
2. If someone pushes it for no reason, its called Drama. Not a good sign.
3. 23 yrs old dating 34 yrs old? 23 is a very volatile age. People change a lot in next 2-3 yrs. Speaking from personal experience.
4. Your voracious appetite for texting. Not a good sign.
Overall - There were too many red flags but 'lust' made you blind (thats true) . I feel for you buddy, but move on and also make some adjustments in the way you operate.

[mikey49]

well.. my 0.02$
1. Sex on the first night has rarely been a good sign.
2. If someone pushes it for no reason, its called Drama. Not a good sign.
3. 23 yrs old dating 34 yrs old? 23 is a very volatile age. People change a lot in next 2-3 yrs. Speaking from personal experience.
4. Your voracious appetite for texting. Not a good sign.
Overall - There were too many red flags but 'lust' made you blind (thats true) . I feel for you buddy, but move on and also make some adjustments in the way you operate.

Good call, thanks! It helps to vent! If somebody pushes what? And I was on vacation when this happened... she was blowing up my phone texting me as much if not more. She even admitted getting annoyed because I fell asleep on her one night while we were texting. So, the text messaging was mutual. Until of course, I pushed it. And I haven't text her since she finally replied telling me to stop.