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    MarksBabe37 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 15, 2006, 03:01 PM
    Medling Mother
    I'v been divorced for Almost 2 yrs now and been fighting the x-husbond on visitaion and this is gotten out of hand due to my mother writing vandictive letters to the courts telling that this is not a good thng for my children to see me I am on disibility and she states that I can not take care of my son the way I was taught. The problem being is sense then I reciently got married and met a wonderful guy how had taught me to take charge of my life and stop having other people choose my life for me and this has upset my mother dearly we no longer talk what should I do.
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    Oct 15, 2006, 08:19 PM
    I would kick my mother's *** and tell her she's the worst mother in the world. That is, put her on a guilt trip (If that thing even has feelings) and tell her that she raised you the way you are so don't blame you blame herself.
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    s_cianci Posts: 5,472, Reputation: 760
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    Oct 16, 2006, 05:28 PM
    What exactly do you want to accomplish? Do you want your mother to stop meddling? I'm not sure that'll ever happen, especially since she's so brazen as to write letters to the court disparaging you as a mother. Perhaps you could draft a letter of your own and send it to her. Let it say something to the effect that you love and respect her as your mother but that she has no business meddling in your life when it comes to your children and husband and that you will have no further contact with her until she chooses to stop. If she write any more letters to the court then you'll ask the judge to issue an order forbidding her to continue sending disparaging letters concerning you.

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