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    Jun 19, 2009, 09:00 PM
    I'm envious of my own sister
    Hello guys
    Well, I have a older sister.. she is 2 years older than me and she is gorgeous,very very very gorgeous and all the guys look to her and flirt with her,and I always feel down when I'm at her side because people always keep reminding how gorgeous she is and I'm not. So I feel so much envy.. even when I had a boyfriend I was afraid of him fall in love with her so I even told him that I have no sisters,because I really am envious about her looks and attention that she gets,so I'm afraid of she steal everything I got.
    I feel so inferior next her.. but I feel bad for having so much envy.. how could I live next her without feeling envious or inferior? :(
    I get so hurt going out with her and listening things like "your sister is gorgeous" "what a woman she is" I think that it destroyed my ego
    I wish I could ignore it,but I'm a very visual person and I give a lot of importance to looks ( as most of woman do,I think) and this makes me feel bad because I don't have the attention that she has,the mans that she has.. everything because of her beauty.
    I know that it looks very futile,but it really bother me
    That's it :o
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    Jun 19, 2009, 09:08 PM

    My little sister is gorgeous, but dumb as a rock. She's the pretty sister; I'm the smart one.
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    Jun 19, 2009, 09:40 PM

    What makes you think that you yourself aren't beautiful?

    How does your sister carry herself? Does she "flaunt" her beauty? I'm sure if you put as much makeup as her, dressed like her you would get the same results.

    It's much better to be humble than to be looking for compliments as I'm sure your sister does.

    Sarah

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