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    cutie08 Posts: 121, Reputation: 2
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    Jun 14, 2009, 08:24 PM
    Weird feelings toren between two
    OK so I have been dating this guy for over a year now and I lost my virginity to him, the whole time we have been dating I have been so in love with him that I have not looked at another guy. And then a few weeks ago my ex from like 2 years ago texted me and has been talking to me and I'm finding myself forming some feelings for him and its really scaring me like I'm confused and lost and scared I've never had my heart toren in two different directions before.. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and I'm just confused on why I'm feeling this way... what should I do someone please help me pleaseeeee!
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    Jun 14, 2009, 08:25 PM

    Why is your "ex" your ex.
    What happened to make you leave him/

    Why did you all of a sudden start texting him, what caused this
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    Jun 14, 2009, 09:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cutie08 View Post
    what should i do someone please help me pleaseeeee!
    Stop texting the ex. Pretty simple really.
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    Jun 15, 2009, 01:01 AM

    At first it seemed like a no-brainer. You are totally in love with your current boyfriend, so tell the ex to take a hike.
    A possible reason for why you are so conflicted now... Are you thinking that if you lost your virginity with your ex that you would still be together? Or are you just curious about having sex with your ex?
    My suggestion would be for you to build on the love you have with your current boyfriend and forget the ex.
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    Jun 15, 2009, 04:22 AM
    If you love your BF, then stop texting with the Ex. It's a no-brainer, I would have thought.

    But, if there are feelings for the Ex, then it can't be all roses with the BF can it?

    Something's up - you'd better figure it out.
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    Jun 15, 2009, 07:29 AM

    Just don't put yourself in the situation to develop feelings for your ex. It's pretty simple I don't know why people don't just walk away before they get emotional with someone else.
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    Jun 15, 2009, 07:42 AM

    Stop texting your ex, done
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    Jun 15, 2009, 08:49 AM
    Of course your confused, and torn because you have feelings for others. That's human, we all have feelings for other humans.

    Its just you keep old feelings for the ex all stirred up by contact with him. Stop the contact, stop the confusion.

    How old are you now cutie08? I have just realized that you have been on this forum longer than I have, so I guess we both have sort of grown up here together.

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