One step at a time and maybe things will turn out right. If not, than it's never meant to be... right?
She says its over, and you think you can change her mind? Good luck with that.
I suspect your one of those people who think they can knock down a brick wall, by running head first into it, at top speed.
Let me know how that works out for you.
My advise get a good helmet, you'll need it.