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    Tabraiz Posts: 24, Reputation: 1
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    #21

    Jun 11, 2009, 12:33 AM

    I miss her so much
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    #22

    Jun 11, 2009, 12:33 AM

    Yes, it means that she misses you. Can't say if it's a lot, but it's a good thing.
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    #23

    Jun 11, 2009, 12:46 AM

    I've decided to spend time alone for myself. In fact, I've been following this for a couple of days... I find it hard to get her out of my mind. Will this fade away slowly?
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    #24

    Jun 11, 2009, 03:14 AM

    It will, but it may fade faster if you're having fun with friends and doing things to keep your mind occupied. If you're all alone you might tend to dwell on it more.
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    #25

    Jun 11, 2009, 03:41 AM

    This isn't really advice but listen to this song.. Itl make you feel better about it.. well it did for me...

    YouTube - Damin Rice - you
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    #26

    Jun 11, 2009, 05:21 AM
    You're not going to be able to get over her if you keep talking to her.
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    #27

    Jun 11, 2009, 05:31 AM

    I bet this is making it even harder for you isn't it? It sounds like you're getting a lot of mixed signals from this girl. When is she supposed to be getting married?
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    #28

    Jun 11, 2009, 05:35 AM

    Stop picking up the phone, she's off limits and you are only prolonging the agony
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    #29

    Jun 11, 2009, 05:39 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Stop picking up the phone, she's off limits and you are only prolonging the agony
    Had to spread rep. Thanks for point this out, had to edit my advice.

    Rome is right. You're not going to be able to get over her if you keep talking to her. You're just prolonging your pain and suffering. If that's what you want, then we can't stop you.
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    #30

    Jun 11, 2009, 05:43 AM

    You really do need to stop talking to her. You're never going to get over her if you keep answering your phone.
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    #31

    Jun 11, 2009, 08:19 AM
    Yeah that's right...
    I try not to spend time alone as that might lead me to that road only.
    I've started telling myself she's not my piece of cake.
    By the way she'll probably be engaged to someone in another year.
    Great advice guys... really appreciate it. Feel so good already... :D
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    #32

    Jun 11, 2009, 08:25 AM
    Nice song.

    This goes in my collection. :cool:
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    #33

    Jun 11, 2009, 09:09 AM
    I cannot stop talking to her. That would only hurt her a lot...
    Also, if she happens to ask me the reason... what am I supposed to say... :confused:
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    #34

    Jun 11, 2009, 09:23 AM

    You don't have to say anything... that is the beauty of moving on and ignoring her!
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    #35

    Jun 11, 2009, 09:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Tabraiz View Post
    I cannot stop talking to her. That would only hurt her a lot....
    Also, if she happens to ask me the reason... what am i supposed to say... :confused:
    Never say you can't do something because your be surprise at what you can do. Also, when you say you can't your only programing your mind to think you really can't.

    You don't have to talk to her because she wants to talk to you. Your making yourself available to her without considering what is best for you. It isn't about her it's only about you.

    You owe her no explanation. If you feel the need to give her tell he you can't talk to her right now because you can't be he friend due to the fact your trying to get over her--then hang up.

    There is reason for torturing yourself and living off false hope.
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    #36

    Jun 11, 2009, 01:29 PM

    I find myself going against the grain here, given the advice has been excellent, and dead on for you to heal, and move on.

    I think its going to hurt an awful lot, for you both, no way around it, but being she is a friend, you better tell her the truth about you cutting contact with her.

    The why's of this situation may allow you both to face the truth, and let each other heal.
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    #37

    Jun 12, 2009, 04:29 AM

    She once told me about a couple of her college friends who proposed to her and that she did not like that.

    Now, if I tell her this, there's a huge possibility that she might NEVER understand the situation. If anything, I don't want it to end like this between us.
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    #38

    Jun 12, 2009, 04:48 AM

    I do agree with Tal that you should tell her why you're cutting contact with her, but I still think that you should. I didn't mention that at all but I think you should explain that you have feelings for her and that seeing her with other guys is really hard for you. Tell her you just need some time for you to sort things out and try to get over her. Who knows? Maybe in that time someone great will come along and will be available and you won't be distracted by someone that isn't.
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    #39

    Jun 12, 2009, 05:02 AM

    Hmmm okie...
    I should probably tell her this. She's yet to return from her trip.
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    #40

    Jun 12, 2009, 05:19 AM

    Good luck! You'll have to keep us posted.
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