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    griffers90 Posts: 57, Reputation: 12
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    Jun 9, 2009, 04:38 PM
    Something new in the bedroom?
    Hi everyone
    Thanks for all your advice so far it's been excellent. My partner and I are going to be house sitting for a friend for two weeks whilst they're on holiday it should give us a break. Whilst we're away I want to try and do something special for him in the bedroom but I'm stuck for inspiration. Are there any games or positions excetera that you would recommend? He is very open minded but I want to do something different to surprise him. Any ideas?
    Thanks!
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    Jun 9, 2009, 04:42 PM
    Well have you role played before? When my husband and I were dating we would sometimes rent dirty movies and act them out as they were doing. It made it fun. What the did we had to do. Just some ideas.
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    Jun 9, 2009, 04:45 PM

    Hmm we have role played before. This is the thing we've been highly experimental which is wh I've been struggling to think but we haven't acted out pornography yet... hmmmm... that could be an idea...
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    Jun 9, 2009, 04:48 PM
    Well it was fun at times. Pop the movie in and just follow along. Give it a try. What do you have to lose? Nothing really.
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    Jun 9, 2009, 05:23 PM

    And why does it have to be the bedroom
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    Jun 9, 2009, 06:01 PM

    On top of a washing machine in the spin cycle! Fun times!
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    Jun 9, 2009, 07:08 PM

    Try some raw passion. No need to plan anything. Do it standing up, on the dresser, in the shower (but don't hurt yourself). Take a bath together with some candles and love making music in the background.

    There are some good sex games out there but look through it (if you can) before you buy it because I purchase some boring ones.

    Go get some costumes and surprise him. Google Karma Sutra for some new positions because there are a lot out there. Believe me, I tried them all.

    P.S. you stated you and your boyfriend are going be house sitting so I hope the two of you don't do it in their bed. Watch out where the two of you do and be respectful where the deed is done at. No tables or dressers--like I suggested.
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    Jun 9, 2009, 07:18 PM

    Wake him up in the midle of the night by giving him oral, and then either finish him that way or turn it into sex or 69.
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    Jun 9, 2009, 07:21 PM

    My fiancé likes that. Sometimes I just get on top on him.

    One time I handcuffed him to the bed while he was sleeping but tha scared him but we got a good laugh behind it and got busy afterwards.
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    Jun 9, 2009, 08:15 PM
    I'd suggest buying a book on Tantric sex. It takes you through the steps to really connect at an emotional, sexual and spiritual level.

    If you've already been highly experimental then this will challenge you - it's about connecting at a different level, and it's not just about different positions. It does involve play and it does require a lot of trust.

    Tantric takes sex to a different level. And, I can assure you, the sex is mind blowing.
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    Jun 10, 2009, 06:20 AM

    Thanks everyone! I've already got some romantic ideas like a nice dinner and a bath with musice candles and rose petals. I particularly focus on sex as I've noticed when I initiate I just mix up old stuff... could do with a fresh idea. I really like the idea of tantric I've always wanted to be able to connect with my partner like that and I know I'd be comfortable doing it with him.

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