
Originally Posted by
mommytozach
please people I need to know cause I don't want a divorce I love my husband with everything I have and I just can't let go.
If you don't sign it will be long and drawn out, he will resent you horribly, your pain will drag on and on, and no matter what you do, eventually the divorced will be finalized, no matter what. Take it from someone who has been through it, my ex-wife tried not signing and it was a horrible mess. I divorced her because we married really young and although we were good friends I was never "in love" with her and I finally had to give up living a lie. I was hoping we could remain friends but when she wouldn't sign the papers I got very jaded and now we don't talk at all. Her not signing ruined any chance of us having any kind of relationship. My advice the quicker you sign the quicker you can start the healing process and move on to be happy single or find someone who truly loves you and wants to be with you.