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    lexielexs Posts: 37, Reputation: 2
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:22 PM
    Why do guys do this
    Why is it that when a girl walks by and she isn't dressed appropriately( kind of like a hoe) a guy just has to look... like is that something all guys look for in a girl... or do they want the girl that is dressed cute and it wearing nice clothes... what kind of girl does a guy respect... and what is it that they are really thinking when they see both types of girls... I was just wondering because I was out last night and something's you just can't help but notice.. ;):rolleyes:
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:27 PM

    Guys are very visual creatures. If someone wants to smash her sexuality in a guy's face, of course he will look. (And the word is "ho," not "hoe." A "hoe" is a garden tool.)
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Guys are very visual creatures. If someone wants to smash her sexuality in a guy's face, of course he will look. (And the word is "ho," not "hoe." A "hoe" is a garden tool.)
    I know that they'll look... im just wondering what they're thinking... and a lot of people spell HO different way... a ho is a hoe no matter how you spell it
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lexielexs View Post
    I know that theyll look...im just wondering what theyre thinking....and a lot of ppl spell HO different way....a ho is a hoe no matter how u spell it
    Who cares what they're thinking? You can't stop them from thinking. If you try, you will only shoot yourself in the foot.

    "A lot of ppl" are wrong if they spell it "hoe."
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:47 PM
    For a response from a guy... I personally think it depends on the guy himself. I wouldn't judge a girl based on what she was wearing. I would need to talk to her to determine that. I think most guys would look at a girl dressed revealing because of the simple fact there IS something to see. Lets be honest, pretty girl in small tight clothes? In my own opinion I may have looked but that doesn't mean that's my preference. I would have looked at the cute girl dressed nice too. I say it all depends on the guy.I personally wouldn't go by what you observe in a bar lol
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Who cares what they're thinking? You can't stop them from thinking. If you try, you will only shoot yourself in the foot.

    "A lot of ppl" are wrong if they spell it "hoe."
    Im not trying to stop them from thinking... no one has that kind of strength... it would be interesting to hear what a guy thinks... im not saying they're wrong... ppl like what they like...
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    Jun 7, 2009, 07:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by musicfreak831 View Post
    for a response from a guy... I personally think it depends on the guy himself. I wouldn't judge a girl based on what she was wearing. I would need to talk to her to determine that. I think most guys would look at a girl dressed revealing because of the simple fact there IS something to see. lets be honest, pretty girl in small tight clothes?. in my own opinion I may have looked but that doesn't mean that's my preference. I would of looked at the cute girl dressed nice too. I say it all depends on the guy.I personally wouldn't go by what you observe in a bar lol
    I can respect that:).. lol
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    Jun 7, 2009, 08:01 PM
    I hope my opinion helped somewhat. I thought I might mention for the record, I prefer the nice dressed girl.
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    Jun 7, 2009, 08:19 PM

    The girl dressed like a ho is the one they fantasize about, the one they think will do whatever they want.

    The girl dressed nicely, respectfully is the girl they'd bring home to mom and dad, the girl that's a keeper.

    As a girl, it depends on what you're after. Sooner or later you won't get away with the tight revealing clothes anymore, then you may just have to use your personality to attract men. Heaven forbid you're lacking in that area. ;)

    Same for the guys. The ho is usually a one night deal, quickly forgotten, but the nice girl, she gets to stick around for a while, if not forever.
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    Jun 8, 2009, 01:39 AM
    I think no matter what if a girl is dressed like a slut than people will look because it stands out. For example, when I'm driving down the street and I see a girl in booty shorts and her butt is hanging out and she has her boobs hanging out and high heels on I look because it looks weird and she stands out in a crowd of normally dressed people.

    Guys like to check out those girls because they know that the girl is easy. If a guy is just out for sex then he's going to go after girls who show off their body because they give the impression that they want sex and that they're easy to have sex with. This is what all my guy friends tell me and it makes sense to me.

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