[neo178]

Hi people

I have a friend riaan I always have to say things to get the conversation started,does this mean he does not want to talk to me,or what help I'm so confused I don't know if this means he doesn't want to be my friend or if he's just shy or waiting for me to ask something :confused:

[bronzebabe]

He may be very shy, or he may just not have anything to say. When he wants to talk he will. Don't rush him. Be patient.

[neo178]

In the past months since we started speaking less well almost not at all he never started talking to me 1st,is he waiting for me ?

[Fr_Chuck]

By the way it is written I am guessing you are a teen and this is not about adult sex issues.

I have moved this to a teen forum

[justcurious55]

When you start conversations, does he seem interested? Does he carry on the conversation? If he's giving you one word answers and suddenly has to leave, he's probably not interested. If he sticks around and makes an effort to carry on the conversation he's probably shy. I usually don't initiate conversations even with people I enjoy talking to just because its not in my nature.

[neo178]

Chuck I'm actually 23 but according to a online quiz I act 17

[justcurious55]

How old does your friend act? A difference in maturity levels could be causing it. Maybe?

[neo178]

Can someone change the name of my question to confused

[neo178]

how old does your friend act? a difference in maturity levels could be causing it. maybe?

He is done with school so I guess about he's about 19 or 20,I don't know how old he acts

[neo178]

He normally looks at me all bored,but I think he may be masking something, Friday night he looked at me with these big interested eyes I don't get why the sudden interest in me,and when I completely ignored him he kept on leering at me even though he was 2 rows in front of me and was at the far right and I was 2 rows back and at the far left,

[justcurious55]

Have you ever invited him to hang out, just the two of you?