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Cafas · Jun 5, 2009, 05:12 AM

Hiyas, I'll keep this short and to the point.

My girlfriend and I have a strong sexual relationship, and I've come to notice something which I figured I would ask about as my experience with other women is somewhat lacking, whenever she orgasms she get's contented (Is that the word I'm looking for?) as she puts it, and loses sex drive, just get's very relaxed, like, wants to roll over and just fall asleep sort of relaxed, and, as a guy, with, as many men most likely have experienced, TONNES of sex drive, so, is my girlfriend abnormal in that regard, and, as I'm not too arrogant as to think I'm some sex god, is there something I might be doing wrong?

Meow420 · Jun 5, 2009, 05:21 AM

Hey, just like you boys, sometimes after a big orgasm, it completely drains us girls! Many times my partner has wanted to stay up and cuddle and chat after sex and Ive just been too exhausted that Ive started snoring beofre he can blink.

Its nothing abnormal, Don't worry x x x

Cafas · Jun 5, 2009, 05:24 AM

Originally Posted by Meow420

Hey, just like you boys, sometimes after a big orgasm, it completely drains us girls! Many times my partner has wanted to stay up and cuddle and chat after sex and Ive just been too exhausted that Ive started snoring beofre he can blink.

Its nothing abnormal, Dont worry x x x

So is that saying I'm doing a good job performing my role as tool to her orgasm? Yeah I read quite a few sites before this lol :P

Meow420 · Jun 5, 2009, 05:27 AM

Well you must be doing OK if you are wearing her out X x Enjoy!

Cafas · Jun 5, 2009, 05:33 AM

Originally Posted by Meow420

Well you must be doing ok if you are wearing her out X x Enjoy!

Goodo... may leave it open to suggestions of how to possibly have... more fun, know what I mean, it's not like we haven't tried stuff, it's just lack of experience, so we're both a bit... out of ideas.

Meow420 · Jun 5, 2009, 05:34 AM

That's the best part of having a partner... discovering those things together.. it will all come to you, don't rush it :)

shazamataz · Jun 5, 2009, 07:52 AM

I know when I orgasm things "down there" get extremely sensitive and I don't want to continue for very long if at all.

I also like to just curl up and go to sleep after the act.

Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

nikosmom · Jun 5, 2009, 08:57 AM

For me it depends on the intensity of the orgasm. There are some times where I'll want to go for the next round right away. But there are other times where I want to just go to sleep.