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    May 26, 2009, 09:02 AM
    Boyfriend trouble
    My boyfriend of 2years has been so great. Until he give me his e-mail address. And in his e-mails he had in his drafts his ex-girlfriend and the letters she wrote him while me and him was together.when he told me he deleted her from everything and never cheated on me with her. But the letter clearly shows that he did and everything he told me about them was a lie. I broke up wit him but it hurts so bad. Should I get back together with him? Cause something in me says it petty and something else is telling me he is lying about even more stuff. What should I do? Cause if he lied about something so simple he could have lied about a lot more.
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    May 26, 2009, 09:12 AM

    There isn't anything petty about catching someone lying to you.

    You were right to break up, follow the NC rules and move on with your life. You deserve better then someone who lies to you.
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    May 26, 2009, 10:05 AM

    You have had trust issue with him for a while. You handled it by leaving, so don't second guess your decision now. Move ahead with your life.
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    May 26, 2009, 10:21 AM

    Nope, keep right on moving. Don't go back on your instincts now
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    May 26, 2009, 10:31 AM

    Getting upset over lying and cheating are NOT petty things.

    Truth and fidelity are the foundation of a relationship. If you don't have that, you don't have anything.

    You made the right decision.

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