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    Taharenda Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    May 21, 2009, 08:14 PM
    Should I wait
    Hey I've been tlking to this guy on the net I knew him before but we kind of went in to a relationship upon meeting on the net. The hing is I am 18 and he is 19 I don't know if he have had sex before but he seems he have. He lives in a different country but I plan to go to his country for the summer I've been thinking lately if I should have sex with this man when I go to his country or can I tell him to wait is it OK if I ask him to wait even though we are far away from each other
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    Sai Naung Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 22, 2009, 02:59 AM

    Hello Taharenda,

    Alls are depend on you. Nobody can't control your mind. So u have to make decision yourself.
    Right!!

    Brgds,
    Sai Naung
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    #3

    May 22, 2009, 06:45 AM
    You've never even met the guy in person and you are already thinking about having sex?

    Is that how it works for guys in your own city too?

    Just treat him the way you treat every new guy that you meet in your own city/town, when you get over there.

    Anyway, if you are so uncomfortable about the situation, then just say NO to sex when you meet him. Can't you guys just hang out, have fun and talk? It doesn't have to involve sex...
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    May 22, 2009, 06:52 AM

    The fact that you're unsure means you should wait. Don't do anything just because you feel like he's expecting it. If he pressures you, tell him to take a hike.

    I have to ask are you going to his country for the purpose of meeting him or was this trip already planned? After you return home, what are you expecting to happen?

    If this is going to be a real relationhip, then sex can wait until you're both ready. But honestly I have to say that I'm nervous about you meeting someone in a different country under the premise of it being a relationship. Just doesn't sound like a good idea. What's wrong with the guys in your local area?

    Anyhow, that's my 2 cents and it seems like you shouldn't plan on sex for a first encounter.
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    May 22, 2009, 09:36 AM

    Did he tell you he wanted sex or are you assuming he wants sex?

    Also, if you can't talk to him about sex them you defintely shouldn't be thinking or let alone be having sex with him.

    Also, did you say you knew him before the two of you met over the net? If so, then you should know what he is about.

    If not, you shouldn't be traveling to another country to met someone you don't know. Do you wactch the news? Weird and bad things have happen to people because of this.

    Btw, what country are you from and what country are going to?
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    May 22, 2009, 08:41 PM

    Thank you guys the trip was already plan becase I'm from that contry but I want to tell him from before I go that I don't plan to have sex with him when I go how should I tell him
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    May 22, 2009, 08:42 PM

    Just wear a condom

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