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    May 19, 2009, 03:44 PM
    How do I move on from a bad break up?I still love him and I want him back?what do I do
    I wanted a serious relationship and he didn’t, so, I told him that over a text. Then I asked him out, cause I felt like talking face to face, and when I asked him if he is cool with me ending it,he said that he doesn’t feel any guilt ending it.so,I asked him what's changed? And he said: I used to like u, I wanted you to be a girlfriend to me, but then I stopped liking u!so,I asked him why? And why he didn’t tell me that? And he was like: no reason and when I told you I didn’t want anything serious, I thought it meant I don’t like you anymore.but somehow we kept on going out and "playing"around.and he didn't say that he doesn't like me then in my face.and then I asked him to go, while I was sitting in a dark alley and he just left. And that's it.
    How could anyone do that to a human being? I feel so used and I don’t think I could ever forgive him,I just want to get back at him,I am writing this question while I'm crying. Please help me
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    May 19, 2009, 03:47 PM

    He just doesn't feel the same way about you. You can't force him to feel a certain way. And people's feelings change and we can't control that.

    However, he sounds like a real jerk. He doesn't sound considerate of your feelings at all.

    You deserve much better treatment than this. Let him go and move on with your life to bigger and better things.
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    May 19, 2009, 04:04 PM

    Sounds you you know what to do. Which is move on. Best way to do so is no contact at all. How do you get back at him? Move on with your life and be happy without him and be the best person you could be and he will regret it.
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    May 19, 2009, 04:13 PM

    What do I do
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    May 19, 2009, 04:13 PM

    I know that I have to move on.but it hurts so bad and my eyes are swollen from crying.I just,I just want to get back at him.ahh
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    May 19, 2009, 04:42 PM

    I know it hurts now, because it's still fresh in your mind. I wish there was a magic potion to make the pain go away too. But time is the only solution. Give yourself some time to recover.

    Avoid contacting him completely, that will help with the recovery. If he contacts you, do not return the communication. You got to block him out of your life to help you move on.
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    May 19, 2009, 04:50 PM

    I don't like the way things ended.cant I at least call to have some kind of closure?
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    May 19, 2009, 05:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hotbabe23 View Post
    i dont like the way things ended.cant i at least call to have some kind of closure?
    You had your closure the day you guys splitted.

    Can you call him? Of course you can, no one is stopping you.

    Should you call him? No, because it ll just prolong the hurt.
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