[meowmixer1209]

If your reading this and planning on helping me thanks in advance. Anyway so me and this guy jo have been texting and hooking up for a little while but now he is completely uninterested and is moving on to another girl. He is a senior and I am a sophomore by the way. Like everyone knows that I'm really into him its pretty obvious, he even knows it which sucks because he uses that against me. He says things like oh I don't say hi to you in the hallways because I know it makes you want me more - what a jerk right? But that's what I like for some reason I like cocky people. I really need help getting him back, he started talking to this pretty senior girl and pretty much just blew me off. PLEASE HELP! :eek:

[crazychick56]

Okay... I'm still not sure about only the first name but I know it is rude to post somebody's full name... but since you only posted his first I have no idea... but you might want to edit it just in case unless someone smarter at this then I am(haha:]) tells you otherwise...

But here is what you said that rings a bellhe is a senior your only a little sophmore to him. No offense or anything I bet there are sophmores and freshman maybe even juniors wishing they could be with you... but he is the top of the top while you're still baically considered new to the school... just not the newwest(freshman).

You should probably move on considering he has... don't even waste your time on him girl... if you spend your sophomore year chasing after him you're going to look back on it and think "man i wish i hadnt thrown my sophmore year away like that.... for a stupid reason too..." there are better guys out there trust me... not this jerl...

And I know what you mean... to want a jerk... someone cocky... my ex boyfriend was like that and I was more attracted to him... but that won't work out trust me because now at the moment I'm stuck in a situation that I wish I was not in. We are in this huge fight and since he is so cocky and such a jerk..,. he is throwing rude vituperations at me and deriding me and it hurts... I'm trying not to cry(and I haven't yet) but it is sooooo hard... words hurt so much especially for a girl... so now is your opportunity... take advantage of it and walk away.


He proabably just didn't mean anything by what he was doing to you. Guys have done that to me before and when I was aware of that little act... when they do it... I just blow it off thinking of it as nothing but a little act they want to play. So ignore him... and let him like her. What he is 17 or 18 and your only 14 or 15? He is going to want a girl his age and in his grade... plus... reputation has a lot to do with it... and how bad would it look on his reputation to date a sophomore? Think about it...

I wish you much luck and do the best you can... just walk away... :D

[artlady]

Ignore him!
He is playing games and if you like guys who do that ,you are asking to be treated like crap.
Respect yourself and don't ever allow anyone to disrespect you!
You are worth more than that.
You are still young so get this now.. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you.Never allow anyone to dishonor you.

[liz28]

He is into someone else--eenough said.

Why do you want to be someone that doesn't want to be with you?

Then you stated he is a jerk so do you really think you need a jerk in your life?

Your young and your going have plenty of relationships until you find the right for you.

But never ever, never ever ever, put yourself out there by wanting someone that doesn't want you nor consider being with someone when they already have someone else.

Move on!

[IWHO]

The ladies above are right...

1. Do you want a JERK for a boyfriend? He will just hurt you more than he is hurting you now...
2. RESPECT YOURSELF.. You ARE worth more than that and you should NEVER allow anyone to disrespect you... You are a lady... expect treatment worthy of such...

[I wish]

I'm not sure I have enough facts to call him a jerk yet. I think it's something much simpler. He doesn't have the same feelings for you. So he said that he doesn't want to save hi to you so that you won't get anymore false hope so that you can move on with your life. It's like no contact the reverse.

I'll explain, usually when you want to get over someone, you would ignore them so that your feelings for them won't resurface so quickly. But instead, he's helping you with no contact by ignoring you.

Again, I could be missing a lot of facts, but I did want to put some perspective on his behavior.

Either way, regardless of his actions, it's clear that he doesn't feel the same way about you, so it's time for you to move on. Whether he ignores you or not, you should be ignoring him so that you can get over him more easily.