[Arpana93]

I'm 30yr old female ,married and have a 4yrs old son.The thing is ,I never feel orgasm when I have sex with my hubby.Means ,no sexual feeling at all.I don't feel his touch whereas he tries to make me satisfy.I never talked about this with him.He finds and asks me why don't you feel orgasm, I always roll it. Sometimes I do masterburate myself taking out my discharge.. I attract to girls more and feel like having sex with them.. I attract to guys too but not as quick as to girls... so please tell me what's the problem with my sexuality.. I'm very frustrated with myself.:(

[bananaBean]

Maybe you should talk to a therapist about this. Sex isn't the most important thing in life but feeling a connection to your husband is. A therapist can help you discuss this problem with your husband. Sweetie I think you might be gay. Maybe its just curiosity but either way you need to find out for the befit of your child, husband and more importantly for yourself.

[Gemini54]

I agree with bananabean. You should speak with a counsellor. It sounds as if you could be lesbian or bi-sexual. I would suggest you do it soon, as it's not fair to you or your husband if you can't enjoy sex as part of your marriage.

[I wish]

Shouldn't this be in the Adult sexuality section? Adult Sexuality - Ask Me Help Desk

Sex is definitely not the most important thing in a relationship, but if it bothers you so much, you should confront him about it first before consdering to see a counsellor.