[liz28]

Smoothy I was simply stated how the photos from his could have gotten to his email from his cellpone. When I take pictures with my cellphone I automatically sends it to my email address through my cellphone in case I lost my phone.

The OP must have confronted her husband if he addicting to being an addicted to doing this. I wouldn't assume that the OP has self esteem issues because I would've confronted my fiancé about this if it was bothering me. I don't understand how you can compare this abuse and everything else you wrote but his behavior is alarming.

I don't know what issues are going in their marriage but I hope the OP does come back and elaborate more on this situation.

[smoothy]

Here is my point... why is HE suddenly guilty, and she is absolutely right, absent ANY evidence... except she is female? Or claims to be.

We have little evidence... few facts... and essentually almost nothing to go on here.

[Catsmine]

As counsel for the defense in the battle of the sexes, Smoothy, you're doing an outstanding job. Your point about trollishness is a little premature for 24hrs after the OP. The original question posed some communications issues and what she said she heard did sound suspicious. Until we hear back from the OP, I agree there's not quite enough information for the vehemence of this thread.

[smoothy]

Well I have seen quite a few paranoid... (seriously) women that see things that aren't there, etc... that go ape over stupid stuff, like a few naked pics or magazines or a very sexy dressed woman catching his eye.

But I also will acknoledge some guys do cheat and do inappropriate stuff... sometimes for good reason after a lot of provocation, sometimes without any reason or justification. Sometimes the roles of paranoia are reversed from that too.

I like more facts when someone starts jumping up and down pointing a finger and accusing... PARTICULARLY when we only hear one side of the story. Which by its very nature will be biased.

[Synnen]

I strongly suggest that we just stop responding to this thread until the OP comes back with more information.