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    ViteWat=Love Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    May 12, 2009, 05:45 PM
    Someone needs to help me...
    Me and my fiancé are trying to conceive. He is in the marine corps and it is very hard for us to have time together. We have been together for two years and have decided that it is time for a baby.
    He came home for a week on Wednesday, we had unprotected sex a countless number of times and he left yesterday.
    Yesterday afternoon I received my period. I have heavy cramping and very tender breasts which has never happened to me before. I am not supposed to get my period until May 17th. I was hoping I was pregnant and am very upset that I am having this early period. Does someone have any hope/advise for me? :confused:

    I really need an answer to my am I pregnant question before I head to bed, its upsetting me greatly. :(
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    May 12, 2009, 06:15 PM

    First do not "ask" a new question to merely say I need a answer to another question.

    In fact you need to "answer" your own question to add more info.

    To your question, no one knows, it could be, it may not be, Where you during the furtile time when you were having sex. And it is also not the countless times depending on his sperm output
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    May 12, 2009, 06:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    First do not "ask" a new question to merley say I need a answer to another question.

    In fact you need to "answer" your own question to add more info.

    To your question, no one knows, it could be, it may not be, Where you during the furtile time when you were having sex. And it is also not the countless times depending on his sperm output
    I donot know when my fertile time is. Every time we had sex he came inside of me.
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    May 12, 2009, 07:00 PM

    You need to learn a lot about sex and getting pregnant. There are specific times you are more likely to conceive.

    You need to buy some books on it, for many couples it can take over a year to get pregnant trying hard.
    It is not just having sex, but having it on the right time. While always a maybe,

    I would ask, why not marriage and then a baby if he came home
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    May 12, 2009, 07:15 PM

    You may be pregnant. Probably not, but it's possible.

    Your most fertile period is about 14 days after your period starts. That is if your periods are regular and you're like "most" women. Read about it. It's very interesting.

    Does your boyfriend want a baby too?
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    May 12, 2009, 07:19 PM

    I hope your not pregnant. Your not ready for it.

    As far as Trying to conceive right now, do you really believe it is the right time. The answer to that in my own opinion is no.

    If you had your period. Your most likely not pregnant.
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    May 13, 2009, 06:13 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by simoneaugie View Post
    You may be pregnant. Probably not, but it's possible.

    Your most fertile period is about 14 days after your period starts. That is if your periods are regular and you're like "most" women. Read about it. It's very interesting.

    Does your boyfriend want a baby too?
    Yes he does. We are getting married in July of 2010. We are trying to conceive now though.
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    May 13, 2009, 06:22 AM
    So around one o clock in the morning I awoke with the worst back pain on my lower left hand side. I stood up and got dizzy. Everything in the left side of my face went numb. I went to the emergency room and they told me I had a urinary tract infection that was reaching my kidneys. The perscribed me with medication and told me to come back in a week. The doctor asked if I used protection the last time I had sex and I said no. She asked me if I was pregnant aand I told her no because I'm on my period. She said it doesn't matter at all. She never told me if she tested my urine but I think it would be too early to tell even if she did. Do you think my UTI has anything to doo with why my period came so early and being pregnant?
    This wouldn't be the first time a strange pregnancy would happen to me, two years ago I had a tubal pregnancy in which they had to remove my baby so I wouldn't damage my tubes, and in December I had a misscarriage after a month and a half long ppregnancy due to stress. What do you think?
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    May 13, 2009, 01:17 PM

    Wait until the discomfort of the UTI subsides, do take the full course of medication for it. Then see what happens when your next period is due and test if necessary.

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