[a_denise]

Ok My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months. The first month was great and now it seem like he don't care. He was talking to his ex girlfriends, until yesterday. Like two weeks ago he told me he had feelings for her and me, but didn't know who he wanted to be with. Yesterday I told him how I felt and told him I wasn't going to do it anymore. So he leaves for like two hours, then calls me and tells me he is on his way back. So after he got here he more or less told me that he lies about everything and he is going to try and stop lying to me. Well he told me that he deleted his myspace because that how he looks for girl. Well today I find out that he has one and he has a lot of pictures of himself and his ex. But not one of me. I don't what to do. I'm so :confused:

[BigUps]

Hi denise

From what you've said about the first month being great, but not so great since... the relationship may not have been going that well. From the actions you describe you deserve someone who is more honest and true to his feelings for you.

If he's lied about his myspace, then really you don't know what else he's been lying about either. My advice would be to think carefully about whether you want to be with someone like that, and perhaps be the bigger person and end it before the relationship goes on any longer.

Remember, no one deserves to be with someone who can't make up their mind if they want to be yourself or someone else. Everyone deserves respect and devotion from their partner in my opinion.

Good luck!

[liz28]

I think you can do a lot better than him. He has proven time after time to be liar and will continue to do so until he gets caught in his next lie. His past behavior will be his future behavior. Lies have a way of caughting up to you and it keeps catching up to him.

Also, how can you be with someone who tells you that he loves you and her. And then leaves for a few hours to decide who he wants? I would have made the decision easier for him by leaving. Now he isn't only a liar but a two timer as well.

Trust is threw out the window and once that is gone you have anothing and you will only be questioning everything which leads to snooping like your doing now. Leave! You can be in love with him after only being with him for 6 months. Don't your feelings for him interfere with your common sense.

So to sum things up you need to leave this liar/cheater alone. You can do bad by yourself.

[Romefalls19]

You leave him, nothing else. I really don't see why people put so much weight on a stupid social networking site. Long gone are the days where people met each other in real life rather than some impersonal site. Lying is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship, it's hard to break the habit and hard for you to give them your trust again. Once you lose trust, the relationship quickly follows

[artlady]

You should be in the honeymoon phase of the relationship and already you are having serious issues.

One month of happiness does not equate to four months of nonsense.

You should get out now before you invest anymore time in a guy who lies and can't make a decision.

He does not seem to be invested in the relationship all that much and you will most likely receive more of the same if you stay with him.

There are plenty of men who will treat you lousy but know you are deserving of better treatment.

Never accept being disrespected.

[liz28]

Listen to what Artlady said because she is right. Choose yourself and leave because if you love yourself you would remove yourself from this situation.

People only do what we allow them to do to us. This guy knows he can get over on you. Recognize the game and move on. Quit while your ahead somes to mind.