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Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:42 AM

By the time she'd realize I'd be done. When we first met, it used to happen A LOT! Now, it's like ordering a chess set in the mail, I get a piece every 4 to 6 weeks but no idea what shape it will be in.

Justwantfair · May 11, 2009, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by shazamataz

That'd be right... it starts getting dirty when I have to go to bed :p

Goodnight all!

:)

Night Shazzy.

Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:43 AM

I'm allowed to watch porn, she's not like some of the people on the boards where their spouse can't do anything but I don't even think that would do the trick. It's really frustrating, because at 22 I'm at my peak!

mudweiser · May 11, 2009, 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

Agreed. I have NEVER dated a girl that would have been cool with walking in on that situation...

::raises hand::

Wouldn't bother me.. never has.

Sarah

Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:44 AM

It makes me feel like I have a complex, like maybe I stopped being attractive to her or something

Justwantfair · May 11, 2009, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Depending on the girl, that could go downhill fast Justy!

True, I have only witnessed our countless threads about how that's NOT ALLOWED.

It's cheating or something similar... I don't really get it.

Never mind, Rome. You just have to suffer in silence. ;)

kctiger · May 11, 2009, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

::raises hand::

wouldn't bother me.. never has.

Sarah

Wow... I don't know if I would even be comfortable doing something like that. Just seems like a private deal. I mean, if I wanted help, I would ask... maybe I am just a baby...

Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:46 AM

I couldn't do it in front of anyone either Kc, so we must be big babies together

Alty · May 11, 2009, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by Romefalls19

It makes me feel like I have a complex, like maybe I stopped being attractive to her or something

You know that's not it, she's just got a lot on her mind right now.

You know the answer, talk to her, tell her you're going crazy, that you need some attention before you go insane.

She loves you, but she's not a mind reader.

kp2171 · May 11, 2009, 10:47 AM

Speaking of sex in cars talk...

Years ago, fourth of July, at a big amusement park...

Fireworks were winding down and the girlfriend and I went to the lot to try to get out before the traffic got bad. Well, too late... everybody else beat us to it, so we decided to crawl in the back and fool around.

Was an old jeep cherokee with dark tinted windowsm seats folded flat, and wouldn't you know it... what luck... always a couple of blankets conveniently available.

So were fooling around, mostly half naked and just getting the rush off doing it in a parking lot... there was traffic, but I was parked at a pretty secluded edge with decent privacy (wonder if that was planned)...

So we're having a blast when all of a sudden there's a light "thump", like something hit the car, then a pause, then the sound of water falling. I thought when the thump hit we were busted, but there was no flashlight or knocking or talking. Just the water.

Well... apparently that secluded spot looked just like the right place for some drunk guy to be able to lean and pi$$. One hand on my car. One hand on his, well, you know. And him pi$$ing over my back tire.

Mood killer? Yeah.

I might have wanted to kick his arse if I didn't have a half naked girl beside me. Fight with a drunk who is probably not tucked and zipped or laugh with the cute girl with her top off.

I'm not the smartest boy, but I'm not dumb enough to make the wrong choice there... even tho' it pretty much ended the mashing. We laughed all the way home.

Justwantfair · May 11, 2009, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

Wow...I don't know if I would even be comfortable doing something like that. Just seems like a private deal. I mean, if I wanted help, I would ask...maybe I am just a baby...

I love watching and participating, but I do think that men are typically uncomfortable doing it for an audience.

But I bet you wouldn't mind watch a women play solo.

Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:47 AM

I told her, all she says is "she's sorry"

mudweiser · May 11, 2009, 10:48 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

Wow...I don't know if I would even be comfortable doing something like that. Just seems like a private deal. I mean, if I wanted help, I would ask...maybe I am just a baby...

Really. Hmm.

I don't know I mean if your having sex with me then why can't you masturbate in front of me-- it's not like I'm going to be watching you go but if it happens then whatever, don't have to go and lock yourself in a room and jump if I walk in like a dirty old man...

Meh, that's just me..

Sarah

kctiger · May 11, 2009, 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

I love watching and participating, but I do think that men are typically uncomfortable doing it for an audience.

But I bet you wouldn't mind watch a women play solo.

Entirely different situation. The awkwardness of some 6"-12" stick just sitting there being pounded on isn't like a finger in a hole. Just totally different.

Justwantfair · May 11, 2009, 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by Romefalls19

I told her, all she says is "she's sorry"

'She's sorry', ugh, that comes across like 'oh, well'.

That sucks.

Alty · May 11, 2009, 10:49 AM

KC, Rome, you're not babies, you're just young.

Masterbating in front of your partner can be really hot! Tell me it doesn't turn you on to watch a girl get herself off. Don't lie, be honest!

It's the same for girls (not all). Watching a guy get himself to orgasm, uber hot!

Maybe I'm just old though. KP, your thoughts. :)

kctiger · May 11, 2009, 10:50 AM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

Really. Hmm.

I don't know I mean if your having sex with me then why can't you masturbate infront of me-- it's not like I'm going to be watching you go but if it happens then whatever, don't have to go and lock yourself in a room and jump if I walk in like a dirty old man...

Meh, that's just me..

Sarah

Guess we will just have to find out the hard way... :cool: ;)

Romefalls19 · May 11, 2009, 10:50 AM

She was molested as a child and then again as a teen, as a teen it was her own cousin, so I can understand her hesitations. But she refuses to go to therapy and talk about it, which is what I think would be the best solution. Her anti-depressants, she's not taking anymore. Ahhh I'm at a loss

mudweiser · May 11, 2009, 10:51 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

Guess we will just have to find out the hard way...:cool: ;)

Agreed.

Sarah

Justwantfair · May 11, 2009, 10:52 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

Entirely different situation. The awkwardness of some 6"-12" stick just sitting there being pounded on isn't like a finger in a hole. Just totally different.

It's not a different situation.

To be honest though, ALL men masterbate different (like females) so the benefits of masterbating in front of a partner are too great to pass up the opportunity.