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    rissa roo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 8, 2009, 08:21 PM
    I think I'm ready to have sex
    im not that old some say im still a kid but i really think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend i love him and i no im ready but im still kinda scared. idk how ill really know when im ready... but i am but im just scared of things that can happen next after i give him something ill never get back i can have a baby r get something idk i just know my body is ready but my mind is not all the way ready yet.???:)
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    May 8, 2009, 08:36 PM

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! Being a teen myself this is the worst decision you could EVER make WHat if you get pregnant, AIDS, STD or he LEAVES YOU. PLEASE!! Wait till marriage. You have so much to lose by giving him your virginity. If he left you then you feel empty. And then if you marry someone else you can't give him the greatest gift. Your virginity. PLEASE. SAve yourself or your future husband from the pain of this decision
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    May 8, 2009, 08:49 PM

    You sound like you are trying to convince yourself that you are ready.

    You are definitely not ready. It's not something that you can take back.

    If you have any doubts whatsoever, you should not even consider it.
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    May 8, 2009, 08:55 PM

    You have to be ready mind, body, and soul.You also have to be prepared to become pregnant as no form of birth control is 100% certain to be effective.

    The reason you are questioning this is because you are NOT ready to be a Mom and you are NOT ready to risk getting a disease and you are NOT ready to risk losing your good reputation and be labeled a loose girl.

    The boyfriend may not respect you afterward.You could get pregnant,no matter what protection you use and you may regret it but there will be no going back once it is done.

    Stay true to yourself and do not jump into things you are unsure of.That little voice in your head that is telling you this is not a good idea is the voice of reason.Listen to it.If you listen to that voice throughout your life,you will save yourself a lot of heartache.
    I can tell you are a smart girl because you are listening to that voice of reason.Some say it is your guardian angel whispering in your ear.That's what I like to think:)
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    May 9, 2009, 07:04 AM

    Hormone raging can give you those feeling all right, but you should wait for when your not afraid and know its right, and your mind body and soul are ready, AND YOU VERY SURE ABOUT THE GUY YOUR HAVING SEX WITH.

    As others have said, its not something you can take back, and a lot of consequences and responsibilities that go along with having sex.

    There is no hurry you know.
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    May 9, 2009, 07:30 AM

    Are you old enough to support a baby, is he old enough to hold a job to pay your child support.

    Are you on birth control, and what other birth control methods have you planned.
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    May 9, 2009, 07:36 AM

    NO ONE should have sexual intercourse until they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child. Are you?
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    May 9, 2009, 11:25 AM

    From what I see kids want to jump into sex and then the guy loses interest and they break up. You should work on a solid relationship, which takes time and patience, and take it from there.
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    May 9, 2009, 04:51 PM
    Ok there is NOTHING wrong with having sex before marriage if your with someone you truly love and you are physically and emotionally ready for it. It is VERYYYYYYY hard for females considering I've witnessed the aftermath. You should talk to an adult about this all, so that you know what safety steps to take. Like from where to buy condoms and how to put them on.

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