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    BriaMarie2 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 29, 2009, 03:42 PM
    Boyfriend problems
    My boyfriend and I are having some problems. He just told me he thinks we are growing apart. We have been fighting about stupid stuff lately. I love him so much but he's been ignoring me lately. I don't want to lose him. I don't even talk to any other guys anymore. I don't know what to do can you give me ideas to fix my relationship.
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    Apr 29, 2009, 03:44 PM
    Give each other some space to let him sort things out and be patient, but don't sit around worrying about it. Keep yourself occupied.
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    Apr 30, 2009, 07:59 AM

    Learn how to discuss, and not argue over stupid stuff. Usually if one shuts up, so will the other.

    Where are the communications?
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    Apr 30, 2009, 08:30 AM

    You need to LISTEN to each other. I think that you guys are so caught up with arguing your own side of the story that you forget to listen to the other person.

    When emotions get in the way, then take a few minutes or hours break to cool off before continue a discussion.

    Right now, give him a bit of space to cool off before talking to him again. Stay occupied until you guys are ready to talk again.
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    Apr 30, 2009, 08:37 AM

    Yes, give each other spaces and time. You've got quite an early problem yet, try to solve it by putting the opposite first in every conversation or topic. APPRECIATE them with ACTIONS, not just telling yourself you love him. Guys need to be "handle with love". Good luck.

    God will bring you through.
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