
Originally Posted by
reggieregg1
what are the implications for family members of those who suffer from personality disorders
It is a terribly difficult thing to deal with. There is a lot of stress on marriages, and siblings, relatives etc. There is a lot of 'blame', and a tremendous amount of guilt. It is a never ending situation that leaves you exhausted, confused, and always starting over.
Depending upon which type of personality disorder, and how it is treated, and where it is treated (ie outpatient, inpatient etc.) will make a difference in the lives of loved ones as they will have to learn how to cope and effectively deal with the one who suffers with a personality disorder.
Many simple things become difficult, and behaviour is unpredictable. Medications, doctor appointments, group therapy, psychiatist visits, etc. all take up a good chunk of your life, especially if you are the parent of the one with the disorder.
Add to that many of the personality disorders are concurrent with other disorders, and difficulties arise in consistent care and instructions for loved ones. Sometimes resources are not always there when you need them and you fly by the seat of your pants.
There are legal issues of consent and capacity for some, as well as the necessity to provide money, clothing, etc. and that can be costly if the person is not on some sort of assistance, or on a pension. Even at that, expect financial expenses.
It is also difficult and a hit and miss with professionals in that some are excellent with advice and guidance, others prefer not to talk to you, or communicate very poorly. It takes work to figure out who you can rely on for good, practical information, on a regular basis.
Read, read, read. Do your homework and research as much as you can. Learn about the effects of medication, what to expect, and what they are supposed to do.
It is a tremendous task to live with, or be responsible for a person with a personality disorder. Success comes with proper diagnosis, treatment plans, and support from those that treat your loved one. Much of that success will depend upon the involvement of the family.