[Nestorian]

Talk to him, open and honest, flat out, up front, no beating around the bush. Tell him you like him, and what you'd like to have happen, and ask him what he thinks.

Peace and kindness be with you.

[bc472556]

I'm a little to nervous to just come out and be like hey I want you to be my boyfriend. Id like to get him to be my boyfriend and then bring up being serious you know?

[lighterrr]

Ok so you want a relationship with him then? I thought you just wanted to have a fling! Well if your looking @ this guy like for the long term then you really need to talk to him. He can't read your mind and the only way he's going to know what your thinking/intentions are if you talk to him about it.

Look based on your post he seems like a pretty cool guy and he may be equally as shy as yourself. So just upon up to him verbally and let him know, where your coming from. If you don't know what to say well write it down and rehearse a few times

[bc472556]

Thanks. That's actually the best advice anyone has ever given me. I think I want to say something lke listen I know it has been building up all year and I know summer is right around the corner I hope we can manage to keep in touch the summer because the year is almost over and I don't like the idea of all of this build up going no where? Any good?

[lighterrr]

Thanks. thats actually the best advice anyone has ever given me. I think I want to say something lke listen I know it has been building up all year and I know summer is right around the corner I hope we can manage to keep in touch the summer because the year is almost over and I don't like the idea of all of this build up going no where? any good?

Lol:) sounds great to me:D

[bc472556]

Anyone else have any suggestions?

[bc472556]

Ok so my best friend at school is in a very sticky situation with a boy and she always ask me advice but I never know what to say, because I just don't get this boy. Ok so there is this boy and they have been talking/flirting/hanging out since September. They have gone through a million different weird cycles however since like feb. they have had this weird relationship. They hang out almost once a day, and he always text her either to ask her little thing like where she's going, or to borrow something. When they are together they are clearly into each other. However, he has many mood swings and different personalities. When he is in front of other people while he may stare at her he will never talk to her. If they are going to go out some place he won't walk with her to the car, instead he'll meet her on the street, so they won't be seen together. He won't walk into the building at the same time as her and has even hooked up with other girls in front of her. However while he may soundlike a who is just using her its not like that, they have only hooked up twice. Both of them in the beginning of the year. I just don't get why he is that way in public when he always wants to and makes excuse to come see her. They text all the time I just don'tknow what's his deal?

[shazamataz]

Have you asked her how she feels about this treatment?

Personally I believe that she should find someone new. I wouldn't like to be treated like that! I'm not a big fan of public affection but they won't even talk to each other in public?

And what do you mean by hooking up with other girls?
Just talking to them or full on flirting because that is a major no-no whether she is there or not!

[bc472556]

His friends tease me

[J_9]

How old are the both of you?

[liz28]

Does your boyfriend know about his friend behavior?

If so, then he should have address the issue a long time ago especially since it makes you uncomfortable and their his friends. He needs to man up and tell them to cut it out and if they don't then maybe he should consider finding new respectful friends.

If not, then you need to tell him and see what he is doing do. What route is he going take. The let it slip path or say something to them path? Hmm, I would love to know.

[I wish]

How old are you again? Sounds like junior high behavior. Just let your boyfriend know that you feel uncomfortable about his friends' behavior and if he really likes you back, he will take care of it.

They sound really immature, I hope that your boyfriend is nothing like them. As in, I hope your boyfriend doesn't talk like that when he's around his friends' girlfriends. Cause then you will also have to explain to your boyfriend why it's immature.

Sounds like he's embarrassed to be seen with her. Why would your friend wants to get involved with a guy who feels that way? Tell your friend to steer clear from this guy. He's just trouble. If he wants to hide his friendship/relationship with your friend, who knows what else he's hiding.

[bc472556]

Yeah I Know its very junior high sad thing is we are college soph. I'll bring it up tonight and then let all you know what he says.