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JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:10 PM

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this but I just have a question. Is it true that if a guys is addicted to porn that he can develop sexual urges towards little girls?

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:14 PM

In my opinion no. However many hardcore religious peoples would differ.

There has been cases where a pedophile says that they started watching porn which led to other curiosities which brought them to who they are now.

Remember: it's not porn that is the problem it's the person.

Sarah

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 03:15 PM

No, never heard of such a thing. What type of porn is he watching?

I watch porn and it doesn't make me want to sleep with little boys. Only a sick twisted person would want to do such a thing.

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:18 PM

I was just curious. I heard it from somewhere and I just wanted to know if it was true.

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:24 PM

Really you have to be sick in the head to become a child molester or a pedophile. It's something that is in that person that just isn't right.

Just because you watch porn doesn't mean you'll become one of those sick people. You have to have some major unresolved issue to even come to that point.

I believe that the pedophiles that have blamed it on porn are using it as a poor excuse for their disgusting behavior and mental status.

Sarah

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:26 PM

Pedophilia is a mental disorder. I think its wrong that they act on their fantasies. I am no way making excuses for them, but if they don't do anything then we can't really say they are sick.. yes their thoughts are. But the person isn't. I do happen to know someone who suffers from this. But I do know that he would never do anything.

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:28 PM

Ha! I am sorry to burst your bubble but that is being sick!

If you are in any way thinking of harming a child like that, day dreaming about having any sort of sexual contact with them you are sick.

I'm sure many many many parents would agree with me on this one.

Sarah

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:30 PM

I do agree that it is sick. But people with this disorder can't control their thoughts. Yes they can control what they do about them. They can get help and... well control themselves. I agree that anyone who harms a young child because of this is disturbed and needs help.

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:32 PM

Just because they have a disorder doesn't mean it is okay. Ever.

Sarah

Fuzzball_Kara · Apr 28, 2009, 03:32 PM

There was a guy who spoke to some people around campus here a few weeks ago. He spoke about his addiction to porn saying he became desensitized so he had to look at more intensee things. He wound up nearly becoming a pedophile and a necrophiliac but wound up being "saved." This was his testimonial. I'm not saying I believe it, but I understand that if people start getting desensitized, I can see how porn can help it start up. I do agree that people have the control to make themselves into what they become. It's always a choice of how you react. I guess unless you have terets... I suppose

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by JustHisGirl

pedophilia is a mental disorder. i think its wrong that they act on their fantasies. i am no way making excuses for them, but if they dont do anything then we can't really say they are sick.. yes their thoughts are. but the person isnt. i do happen to know someone who suffers from this. but i do know that he would never do anything.

Never put nothing past nobody. You don't know what this person might or might not do. Since the thoughts are already in his head you never know when he is going act on his urges. I hope he is getting counseling and isn't around little kids.

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:35 PM

I never said it was OK. I am not protecting them or standing up for them at all. There are these sites that just make me so sick I want to get rid of them, but I have contacted many places reporting them as child porn but nothing I did would get them off. Its preteen models. They take these really young girls and put them in bikinis that are way to small and putting them in disgusting positions. If pedophiles view these pictures, I believe that these pictures will increase the risk of them doing something to someone else. If anyone knows how I can get these sites removed. Please let me know

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:36 PM

liz28 he sees a counselor. And he isn't like other pedophiles, its not something that is like in his head all the time or anything like that. Its just something that pops into his head when he sees a younger girl. But beyond that he doesn't think about it. I'm very close to this person.

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:37 PM

Unfortunately the internet is a free world. If there is a child pornography site the best you can do is report it-- however as for suggestible poses and such well they aren't really showing much-- it's just "posing"-- you could start ranting about it but look at most pageant moms and how they've "whored" their children out.

It's disgusting and twisted.

Sarah

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 03:40 PM

They increases the risk on their own.

This thread have run it course and at risk for being removed. I suggest you start a new thread regarding "how to get the site removed" in the members forum. That is the best place.

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:40 PM

Sadly I've heard that these preteen modeling sites are legal, as with lolicon. I don't understand why america would allow this stuff. I really don't. I saw a game on the news a few weeks ago called RapeLay, it's a japanese game that allows you to rape women and kids. Its nasty. And I can't believe america allows this. I really do want to do something about it, but I cant..

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:41 PM

How is this thread at risk of removal?

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:42 PM

Originally Posted by JustHisGirl

how is this thread at risk of removal?

Getting off topic.

Sarah

JustHisGirl · Apr 28, 2009, 03:43 PM

Ooh. OK. Well I'm done anyway. Just went off on a rant. Thanks guys. Bye

mudweiser · Apr 28, 2009, 03:43 PM

Originally Posted by JustHisGirl

sadly ive heard that these preteen modeling sites are legal, as with lolicon. i dont understand why america would allow this stuff. i really dont. i saw a game on the news a few weeks ago called RapeLay, its a japanese game that allows you to rape women and kids. its nasty. and i can't believe america allows this. i really do want to do something about it, but i cant..

The best thing we can do is protect our loved ones and ourselves.

Sarah