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apachemono · Apr 28, 2009, 11:39 AM

This incident happened before I got married. I was searching for right man and I got this profile on internet. He had a twin sister. He sounds to be very handsome, relative of big film star family, a pilot, runs an orphange, runs an old people's home. He told me to do some donation for his orphange as everyone does that in his family and I am part of his family too... I did a small part of donation. The day of engagement arrived and I and my family were waiting eagerly for them to come. They never turned up. After few days he sends me a mail that his cousin expired. I took help from a friend and hacked his email and saw him writing mails to other girls. In one of the mail he mentioned that his mother expired.. I got his new phone number from email and called him. He said he still loves me and his sister wrote those email to other girls. He came back in relationship and few days later he fought and went back and again he came back... later he started using abusive langugage too.. in this series of incidence I met my lifepartner and got married.

But I still see his profile in orkut and other dating website and curious to know about him... I don't know what to do...

apachemono · Apr 28, 2009, 11:42 AM

.He again got back after I met my husband but I denied his proposal this time...

Romefalls19 · Apr 28, 2009, 11:45 AM

I'm not seeing what your question is.

I wouldn't leave your husband for this guy, he sounds like a scam artist

apachemono · Apr 28, 2009, 11:47 AM

My blood boils when I think about this... feels like taking revenge...

Surely I am not leaving my husband for this stupid man... I am being revengful

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 11:50 AM

If your married you shouldn't be talking to the other guy because sounds like a con artist. Be leery who you meet online and use your common sense because if it sounds too good then most likely it isn't true.

Also, don't send money to someone you don't know or be their girlfriend or think about marrying them especially when the two of you never met.

Wise up and get hip to game because the internet guy is full of it.

artlady · Apr 28, 2009, 11:52 AM

When you wonder about him,wonder who he is scamming now and be glad it isn't you!
Revenge will eat you up and it gives him power over you.
Don't give in to it.
Accept it for what it was ,a bad experience and let it go.

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 11:55 AM

Originally Posted by apachemono

My blood boils when i think about this...feels like taking revenge...

surely I am not leaving my husband for this stupid man...I am being revengful

Why? Why waste any energy on this joker. You were the silly one to fall for his games so the best thing for to do is move on.

Letting hate consume you will only hurt you in the long run while he out living and enjoying his life preying on woman that will give him the time or day.

Learn from, let it go, and move on.

apachemono · Apr 28, 2009, 11:55 AM

Originally Posted by artlady

When you wonder about him,wonder who he is scamming now and be glad it isn't you!
Revenge will eat you up and it gives him power over you.
Don't give in to it.
Accept it for what it was ,a bad experience and let it go.

Thanks Artlady... I even tried speaking to few families he contact... I got their contacts over his email... no one wants to talk about him or his family... a lady spoke to me over the call had similar experience with her daughter... but the daughter never got involved with this guy she said...

I wish · Apr 28, 2009, 12:02 PM

It's time to bury this guy in your past. It's fine to be curious and confused, but don't let it consume you. It's time to move on with your life to bigger and better things.

Like Artlady said, learn from this experience. It will only make you a stronger person.

kctiger · Apr 28, 2009, 12:17 PM

Karma, it's life's natural revenge. Get on with your life, and save your energy for things that better you.

liz28 · Apr 28, 2009, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by apachemono

Thanks Artlady...I even tried speaking to few families he contact...i got their contacts over his email...no one wants to talk about him or his family... a lady spoke to me over the call had similar experience with her daughter...but the daughter never got involved with this guy she said....

Stop what your doing and instead of focusing on him focus on your marriage.

Stop reading his emails and following his movements on the dating site because doing this will only keep your blood boiling and you want to move past him.

talaniman · May 1, 2009, 06:59 AM

He is a con artist, there are a lot of them in the world. Make a police report, and move on.