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rohit2206 · Apr 28, 2009, 12:05 AM

Dear Doc,
I am currently in a relationship with a married woman. I have known her for one years, but we have just become true lover in the last six ,Our love is uncondition,Our love is pure and ture,the way I love her she love me the same way.she care me like child,give suggestest me like true friend, she is always with me whether I am right or wrrong,why she can't leave her husband,but she has not yet done so due to a variety of reasons. I'm certain that she does not love her husband,I cannot understand why she's with him at all.
The most common reason she gives for not leaving him is that she's worried about how her children (she has two son;. She says that her kids mean everything to her.but I am ready to accpet her kids.she says -she loves me without question. My questions are:
1. Do you think she's telling me the truth about why she will not leave him.Or she doesn't believe me or in my love.
I love her tremendously,
Help, please!

Rohit -- waiting for the favourable reply

Dare81 · Apr 28, 2009, 04:55 AM

.First why would you go and have a relationship with a married women.Second she is just using you.Unless you are currently happy with your booty call arrangement that you have going on , I would tell you to get out and find someone else preferably someone not I a relationship

kctiger · Apr 28, 2009, 06:14 AM

Here is the reply you are waiting for:

You are being used and no doubtedly you are the exact type of guy that gets used judging by your seemingly immature way of thinking. You are a homewrecker and frankly I have no respect for your actions. She is married, and to some people (like me) that still means something. She took an oath to be with her partner... not to cheat on him! I won't even go into her unforgivable acts, but as far as you are concerned, it pretty much seems like a dead end road to me.

Good luck with your life. Stay classy!

Romefalls19 · Apr 28, 2009, 06:33 AM

Had to spread it KC but you took the words right out of my mouth. It's nice to see that marriage does still mean something to some people.

talaniman · Apr 28, 2009, 06:43 AM

Why should she leave? She has everything she wants, and a boy toy on the side. Now get real, and know your place, and stop hoping for what you will never have. A real love all your own.

Now be happy with what you have, and share with the husband, like a good booty call.

twinkiedooter · Apr 28, 2009, 07:10 AM

Women who cheat and have children at home are just looking for what they obviously don't get at home - excitement and the thrill of doing something illicit. When the thrill of you wears off, she will be on her merry way looking for another thrill. Wonder how many guys she's gone through since she's been married? You are not the first and definitely not the last.

Grow up and find a single woman that is worthy of you if you would like a permanent arrangement and/or marriage. This married woman is just sampling all the goodies in the bakery shop and is not serious about any of them. Why should she be as she already has a family at home - you are definitely being used.

I wish · Apr 28, 2009, 07:40 AM

Originally Posted by rohit2206

Our love is uncondition,Our love is pure and ture,the way i love her she love me the same way

How can you describe your love in that way if she's married?

Fuzzball_Kara · Apr 28, 2009, 08:03 AM

In my own opinion, if you loved her. You would stop tempting her to do the wrong thing. If she wanted to leave her husband, she could have but she isn't because she likes having the thrill of an affair. Please save yourself the hurt and find someone else. This relationship will drain you in every way possible.