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    soccerplayer7 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 27, 2009, 07:29 PM
    Is my friendship healthy?
    Ok so this girl moved to my town in the beginning of this school year. I am in 8th grade. We started not really being friends because there was an incident where I accidentally got tomatoe on her shirt during lunch. Her name is Jane. After a month or two, we befriended each other. Everything was fine for a straight 4 months. We would hang out all the time. One time, we got into a fight because I got soda on her once and she didn't tell me she was mad at me for almost 2 weeks! When word finally got to me, I wanted to make her feel the same way that I had so I typed a status on Facebook saying "I hate people with the name Jane!" I felt like she was talking behind my back, just like my ex. BIG MISTAKE comparing my slutty ex with my friend. She really got mad at me. Soon we talked it out and everything was fine. Then, two weeks ago, I found out that she was insulting me basically right in front of my ex via Facebook comments. This, again, upset me so I posted the same status as I did weeks before. We found both found out that it was a miscommunication on both parts but during that argument, I learned how she really felt about me. She said that, even when I thought we were friends, she would go home after hangin' with me and question why she even talks to me... on top of this, she calls me a tool, which apparently has many definitions. The tool remark had been going on since the beginning of our friendship but it did upset me. Then she was saying that she is quiting trying to work on our friendship so after a few days, things worked out. And finally, yesturday, she posted a picture of me online with a photoshopped in my mouth. She barely apologized and when I talked to her about forgiving her, she basically kept insulting me. Now, no matter what, this girl whome I thought I was friends with, is insulting me. Note: I'm not saying that I have never insulted her before but this was on a rare basis. PLEASE HELP ME! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
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    Apr 27, 2009, 07:36 PM

    Why you're putting up on this in a friend? Do you like her but disguising as a "friend"?
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    Apr 27, 2009, 07:38 PM
    Ignore her and stop behaving like the tool she says you are.

    She's only insulting you because she gets a reaction from you.

    Ignore her, ignore her, ignore her. Get it?
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    Apr 28, 2009, 08:11 AM
    Is my friendship healthy?
    NO! Leave her alone, or is she the only friend you have? That would be a dog gone shame, if it is.
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