[kimmy222]

Hi
I'm 18 and have DD boobs, which I like when they are in clothes or in a bra, but the areola on the left boob is so much bigger than the right. I know other people can notice too, because my boyfriend said he can notice that, but doesn't notice my breasts are two different sizes, which also upsets me, but isn't as bad. What is the point of having big boobs if you don't even want to flaunt them in front of your boyfriend, because of different sized areola, do males care a lot about stuff like this? Even if males didn't care I would still, because it's just another thing which makes me insecure. I am only 18 I'm meant to flaunting my body, but instead I stay insecure.
I wish I could just fix the problem and make my insecurities go away.

[Butterflyjess]

There is really nothing you can do about different sized areola's.
You shouldn't feel insecure about it.
Did your boyfriend say he didn't like it?
I don't think boys would mind because it's a pair of boobs. You say they are DD I don't think they are going to care about what your insecure about.
Everyone has insecurities. Go out and flaunt yourself you have nothing to be ashamed of!

[DoulaLC]

I would hope your boyfriend is the only one you are flaunting your areolas at! So it really shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.

I doubt he cares... and if it were a real issue for him, you would want to ask yourself why you have him as a boyfriend. Try not to let your view of yourself get caught up in what your areolas look like... it's not a problem and many women will have some differences.

Keep your focus on the bigger picture... what kind of person are you? Are you a good friend and girlfriend? Are you someone people can trust and talk to?

Certainly take care of yourself so that you feel attractive, but you can't change your areolas, short of surgery, so there really is no point in allowing it to cause you to feel insecure.